ChattanoogaPhil
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I think you're comparing apples to oranges here. I believe the behaviors you're talking about were no more acceptable then than they are now. It's just that in that time period people were much more conscious of "minding their own business". Society as a whole decided that the line many were uncomfortable crossing (i.e. - inserting themselves into something between a husband and wife in the privacy of their home) was valid to be crossed and enacted laws to remedy the situation. I remember as a child in the 50's the adults having disdain and no use for a man in the neighborhood who treated his wife badly. It wasn't "acceptable" then, but the laws had not evolved to make it easy for the authorities to intervene.
Actually, what I wrote was- "In my grandmother's day, domestic violence was largely tolerated and turned a blind eye to by society."
Keep in mind that our society largely deemed women as second class citizens, to obey the orders of the husband or else... When my grandmother was 20 the 19th Amend did not exist. This was the landscape of our societal standards and attitudes that made possible for society to tolerate and turn a blind eye to domestic abuse, not the simplistic notion of 'mind your own business'l, though I think that is part of the excuse.
My point is, when one takes a look at how completely screwed up many of our societal standards and values have been in the past, I'm pretty sure JA et al., and the standards or lack thereof that allow such to be tolerated, isn't too much for our society to overcome...or at least survive. I hope.
I think there is a tendency for many to see the worst, seeking some type of validation to a preconceived notion. In some respects these type discussions remind me of global warming activists who see each tornado, hurricane or warm day as proof of impending environmental holocaust.
And I respectfully ask that before you compare what these MTV "stars" do to the Three Stooges, you should personally take a look at it. Whoever made that comparison to you was, in my opinion, using a poor analogy.
Apparently, I'm one of the few who here, or perhaps only one, who lacks intimate knowledge of these JA movies. It's been my personal standard to not support such things. What's everyone's excuse here?

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