I wouldn't worry much about the notch not leaving enough metal. 357 cylinders are the exact same OD with the exact same notch depth as 44 magnum cylinders and even 45 ACP and colt cylinders. The 45 acp cylinders are rated for 23,000psi and some guys regularly shoot 45 supers at 28,000psi in them.
Having reamed N frame 357 cylinders to 44 special and 45 colt which is has a .0115 bigger chamber radius than the 44s and 44 mag cylinders to 45 colt never once had a problem, even firing 45 colt loads in the 23-25,000psi range, I can't figure out where this information comes from. An over sized reamer? A batch of cylinders with overly deep notches? Over pressure loads?
When Skeeter started having these conversions built, some of the M28 cylinders that he had did indeed have overly deep notches. In fact, at least .45 Colt reboring left a chamber with a hole in it, directly over the notch!
He discarded that one and used a different cylinder!

I don't remember which issue of Shooting Times this article was in but it was around 1975.