Beemerguy, good luck to you!
My wife has had two, one in her lower back, and one on her neck. She got the one in her back done before I knew her, but the one in her neck came after we were married (she has degenerative disk disease).
One night after the surgery, I woke up to a strange sound in the room. I listened and finally recognized it. It was my wife, quietly giggling in her sleep. I had never heard her do that. I had heard her crying because of the pain in her neck, but I had never heard her giggle like that.
Praise God and thank the doctors He used to relieve her of that.
My wife has had two, one in her lower back, and one on her neck. She got the one in her back done before I knew her, but the one in her neck came after we were married (she has degenerative disk disease).
One night after the surgery, I woke up to a strange sound in the room. I listened and finally recognized it. It was my wife, quietly giggling in her sleep. I had never heard her do that. I had heard her crying because of the pain in her neck, but I had never heard her giggle like that.
Praise God and thank the doctors He used to relieve her of that.
Hang in there! Before my first surgery I was apprehensive, for my second I was cool as a cucumber since I knew what I was getting into. It was interesting how my 2nd "whacking," as I affectionately call 'em, went down.
It was scheduled for a Friday the 13th and every Nurse, or Tech, that I ran across during my pre-op office visits just had to comment on that fact, wondering if I thought it a good choice of date for such things. I told them that I was born on the 13th, not a Friday, but that I did turn 13 on a Friday the 13th. I remember sitting in Science Class that day watching the clock at it rolled around to 1:13 & 13 seconds. Nothing happened to me when all those 13's got stacked up but my table mate that day was gunned down by the Police about 6 years later. He deserved it though since he was robbing a bank at the time so I guess he made his own bad luck eh?
Back to the story; I worked the night before my 2nd "whacking" so, for me, it was kind of like business as usual. As I was driving to the Hospital that day, the 13th, my wife kept staring at me while I was stopped at a traffic light not too far from the Hospital. Because of this I turned to her and said, what? She said, "you act like you are just going up to the store for a loaf of bread or a gal. of milk." I said, yeah? She then said, bless her heart, "If it were me I would be afraid that I would end up dead or in a wheelchair, it being a Friday the 13th and all." In a very calm voice I asked, would you do me a favor? Wife: "Sure, what?" Please shut the f*** up........
You'll be alright Beemerguy53 and one day this will all be a memory. Thinking about it, prior to my 1st, was far worse than actually having it done and the relief that I had was oh so sweet, even if it only lasted three years. This wasn't any fault of my Surgeon, I was injured, once again, at work through no fault of my own, same with this last time when I was hit in the back by a fork truck driver moving dunnage around by hand. I was just standing there putting on Oil Pans (3800 V6 Engines) when, wham, I was hit with the corner of a 25 lb., 5 x 5' plastic divider that Oil Pans were shipped in on, right where I had been worked on twice. There was no walking that one off and is the major contributor of why I'll need a third go around........
The reason that I included the last part is so you won't get discouraged and think that I had to have multiple "whackings" without good reason. Like I said, you'll be alright, just follow all the pre & post-op instructions and give your body the time it needs to heal before trying anything "they" say you shouldn't be doing and even after that I would feel things out as time goes on. You know your body better than anybody else and don't forget that fact when doing any post-op therapy.
Take care my S&W Friend!
I do not even want to read all the massages on this topic.but please read this before you conscent to any spinal surgery....
My message is, make sure you go into your surgery "heads up" and expolor every, and I mean every alternative before having spinal surgery. Also, get second and even third opinions.
Good luck Beemerguy!
Just remember, one of the things that you have total control over during the whole process is your attitude.
A positive attitude will go a long ways in helping with your recovery, a negative one will do nothing at all, except maybe alienate those around you who will only be trying to help. Based on your posts here I think the attitude issue is a non-issue, just thought I would mention it because we all get frustrated at times.......
good luck beemerguy. let us all know how things come out. try to make sure you have someone there for at least the first few days.put things you will need up where you can get them and take up all throw rugs from the floor during the recovery. last but not least, get on here and talk to people as much as you can. helps with the attitude thing as mentioned earlier. i meet with my surgeon on feb 8th and get mine scheduled. will have 6 fused together after it's over.