Are you open and above board.."Hi honey, I just bought a new to me K frame. It only cost me $450." Or do you keep a secret stash for those impulse buys or something you're saving up for. Does the wife know about everything that's in the safe? I personally take the high road and let her know. That being said, I have to beg forgiveness from time to time. Suspicion is a bad thing in a relationship and makes her wonder what else have I not been telling her. I really don't want to go there.