For cast lead bullets in revolvers, the most important fit is with the cylinder throats. Sizing for the groove diameter is important too, but secondary.
Ideally, cylinder throat diameter and groove diameter should be a close match. Real world results suggest that cylinder throats .001-.002" over groove diameter is perfect. (Of course, the throats and bore need to be aligned properly, but that's another story!)
If the throats are undersized compared to groove diameter, an easy fix is to ream or lap the throats to open them to appropriate size.
The worst situation is excessively oversized cylinder throats. As a bad example are the late era S&W 25-2s with .458" cylinder throats and .451-452" groove diameter barrels.
Lots of guys just give up or accept mediocre performance.
Thankfully, the .41 Magnum is one cartridge in which the revolvers tend to be well made regarding cylinder throats and barrels. Many, if not most, S&W 57s will be found with .410-.411" cylinder throats and .410" groove diameter.
It is very easy to size cast bullets using a variety of alloys and lubes and get accurste loads with little or no leading.