Disclaimer: Do this at your own risk. I am not responsible, just ask my Wife!
For
MY gun the COL is 1.070.(yes not a mis print)
For
YOUR gun only you can determine.
What is IMPORTANT is that you
reduce the powder charge accordingly. COL in test data is based on that test only and whatever gun or test barrel they used. Pressure especially in a 9mm or a 40SW will increase as you seat it shorter.
The pressure is related to the powder charge along with the depth of seating the bullet. So if you seat deeper, than there is less volume for the burning powder gas to expand, so therefore you need to reduce the powder charge.
Take your barrel out and do the plunk test. Start at at a long length and gradually reduce it until it plunks in and out. Do not forget to put a slight taper crimp as it spaces off the mouth of the case, but in guns with short chamber or leads or odd shaped bullets the bullet is hitting first.
Per Hodgdon the min for a 125 gr lead CONE nose is 4.2 gr seated at 1.125. If you look at the listed Hornaday action Pistol (a jacket bullet) they seat that at 1.069 and start with 3.9
So if it was ME I would use the 3.9 and only load a few to see if it cycles the gun OK.
This is a 1911 barrel but the technique is the same.