The Hornady 3rd Edition (1982) lists a starting charge of 2.6 grains of Red Dot and a maximum charge of 3.9 grains of Red Dot for a 158 gr lead round nose bullet. The starting velocity was 650 fps in a 6" barrel and the maximum velocity was 900 fps.
For their 158 gr JHP, (the pre-XTP in S&W terms) they listed a starting load of 3.3 grains of Red Dot, a maximum standard pressure load of 3.8 grains, and two .38 +P loads at 4.1 grains and 4.3 grains of Red Dot. The starting velocity was 650 fps in a 6" barrel and the maximum standard pressure velocity was 750 fps and the maximum .38+ P velocity was 850 fps.
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.38 Special pressures are often confusing and debated.
The SAAMI published standards for maximum average pressure (MAP) in 1974, stated in PSI, for the .38 Special were 17,000 psi for standard pressure and 18,500 psi for .38 +P.
However, in 1994, the .38 +P SAAMI MAP pressure standard was changed from 18,500 psi to 20,000 psi when ammunition manufacturers could not provide the performance levels demanded by consumers. This change was not reflected in many loading manuals because it occurred after the publication of the ANSI standards manual in 1993. So the pressure used in loading manuals for ".38 +P" loads can be a little murky.
But basically, if you're loading .38 for a modern stamped model number K frame, .38 +P loads are fine, by either the old 18,500 psi) or new (20,000 psi) standards. If you are loading for an older revolver or a J frame that is not identified as ok for +P loads, stay with the 17,000 psi limit.
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I like to use 3.4 grains of Red Dot as a target load under a 158 gr cast bullet.
I use a Dillon measure on a 550B and it apparently shakes enough as the press cycles to settle the powder consistently, as I get very consistent throws. I'll cycle the measure about 10 times after filling the hopper to settle the powder, then check the weight, and then randomly pull one off the plate to re-check the weight every 20 rounds or so.
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The original S&W loading used a 158 gr lead bullet on top of 21 1/2 grains of FFFg black (nd about 800 fps). Consequently, whether you use Red dot, Unique, Bullseye or Win 231 be aware that the .38 Special is a comparatively large case, So large that it is easy to get a maximum charge of any of these powders in the case, and still have it not be overly obvious, let alone over flow the case. Consequently, you need to carefully inspect the powder level in each case to ensure there is not a double charge. That's a common caution with any of the old black powder era cartridges, as well as with the .357 Mag, since it's a .125" longer version of the .38 Special.