With five shooters in the family, I expect you'll be consuming a fair amount of ammunition. That means you need PRODUCTION and that means a progressive press.
I suggest you look at a Hornady LNL or a Dillon 550; you are more likely to find the latter used simply because there are LOTS more of them out there. If you get an LNL, be sure to get a NEW one, with the improved ejection system.
Yes, single-stage presses are cheaper, simpler and will be touted as "the right way to learn." For people making HP rifle loads, they are the standard.
YOU, however, need to produce handgun ammo in quantity and trying to do that on a a Rock Chucker or equivalent is akin to trying to put out a newsletter using calligraphy. Rather than waste money on a press that you will almost immediately outgrow, start with what you need and learn to use it. Dillon makes videos; You-Tube has more.
You'll also need a good BEAM scale - FAR cheaper and more reliable than an electronic scale - a decent tumbler (I suggest a vibratory, not rotating, unit) and at least two reloading manuals. You can also get loading data from the manufacturers' websites.
Start low, be careful and stay safe.