The key to enjoying a 4" 44 magnum is either to shoot 44 Specials, or load your own.
I had been shooting the same load in 6 and 6 1/2" 44 magnums, which were NOT full power for about 20 years, and I could not believe how much MORE recoil the the 4" Model 29-2 has over the 29-2 in 6 1/2".
I started loading some of my 44 magnum ammunition JUST for my 4" 44 magnums.
Yes, I'm a wimp. But i's sure no fun getting beat up at the range.
Remington used to have a load they called the 'medium load for the 44 magnum. It was a 240 gr. bullet loaded to 1000FPS. Sadly, I believe this has been discontinued now, which I think is a shame. I shot some in my very first 44 magnum, and it was WAY nicer that the full power stuff!
If they had continued to load that, along with a 240gr JHP at 1000 FPS, I think they would have been decent selling ammunition. Lets face it: 44 magnum doesn't exactly jump off the shelf, but having a choice is always a good thing.
A factory load that delivered a 240 gr. JHP at 1000FPS would make a great PD or HD load for those who prefer the 44 magnum. Like I do.