Have you tried the 9c on a range? That might provide the answer you desire.
If I'd have tried both the 40c and 9c before I'd ordered my 40c, I'd presently own the 9c and not the 40c. Don't mistake that as being necessarily negative about the 40c, as I feel the 40c is a pretty nice handling compact .40 pistol. It may not offer the same controllability for extended range sessions as the 4013TSW (with its wider grip which can reduce felt recoil across a wider part of the palm, especially if Hogue grips are added), but it offers me better comfort over the course of extended range sessions than my 4040PD or G27.
Granted, I own as many .40's as I do 9's, but the 9c is one of the nicest handling, nicely ergonomic, softest recoiling compact 9's I can remember shooting.
As much as I like my 3193, CS9, SW999c and pair of G26's, I do wish I'd ordered the 9c instead of the 40c back when I was making the decision.
If you haven't tried one at a range, consider doing so.
BTW, the comments about comparing guns to women's purses and shoes may be valid, at least to some degree, but that's a debate that often becomes a "lose-lose" proposition.