I request input from LEOs and all the other Pros out there as to the best carry ammo for the S&W M&P Shield 40 Cal. I am not law enforcement, but I am retired military with past assignments that required concealed carry in foreign urban hot spots. The ammo doesn't have to meet the FBI requirements, e.g. penetrate auto glass and still expand. Indeed, over-penetration is a concern because 40 S&W caliber will tend to do that. In summary, I'm looking for a cartridge which, when fired from the Shield's 3.1" barrel, within range parameters of about 3 to 9 yards, will penetrate thick denim plus "jacket" leather, penetrate ballistic gel a maximum of about 15-17 inches and reliably expand to at least 1.60 with 100% of the bullet remaining. Pre-sealed primer is nice but not necessary (I seal my own carry ammo with fingernail polish). All the main cartridge manufacturers claim theirs to be the best, but I would like to hear from unbiased, experienced, people who are more likely to provide straightforward info with nothing to gain. You could save me a lot of time and money. Thanks in advance.