Purchased my new 2.5" Model 19 in 1977. Carried it for plain clothes assignments and off-duty for about 15 years. Here are my observations about magnum ammunition in the short barrels:
1. Muzzle blast is very harsh, much more than any .38 Special +P load.
2. Recoil is extreme, follow-up shots are more difficult to execute.
3. Muzzle flash is extreme, especially in low light situations when it can be nearly blinding.
4. Factory .357 cartridges frequently stick in the chambers due to case expansion under pressure. The shortened ejector rod can make removal of the fired cases very difficult (I recall using a wooden dowel and mallet at times).
I chose to limit myself to .38 Special +P ammunition. I don't see how excessive blast, flash, recoil, and reloading difficulties make the relatively small increase in velocity & energy worth while for defensive uses.
Every one else may make their own choices.