If you look at a slow motion video of a handgun being shot, you'll notice the bullet is long gone out of the barrel before there is any upward recoil. That would indicate a lighter bullet at the same velocity should impact at the same place as a heavier bullet. I haven't actually tried that scenario, but I can assure you barrel time is not the reason, as I used to think, for light bullets shooting higher.
45 ACP Revolver vs Pistol Recoil Slow Motion - YouTube
Paul,
While the video you reference is interesting, it in fact does not support your premise at all. If it were shot at 60,000fps against a grid background where you could actually measure what you claim then it might be compelling, but it still would not explain real world results.
The dynamics of a pistol's recoil differ significantly from that of a shoulder fired weapon, rifle or shotgun. If you draw a line from rear sight to front sight and extend that line to the target, then draw a line through the center of the bore and extend that down range you'll notice that on any pistol, even a 22, the bore line points significantly below the sight line. That's why companies like Freedom Arms sells front sights of various heights. For example, when I bought my 475 Linebaugh from them I had to go to a taller front sight to center the group so I could shoot 420grain mid-range loads. Why? Because of what is called dwell time. All other things being equal, the bullet on this load spends more time in the barrel, than a load that uses a lighter but faster bullet, and the gun has more time to rotate around it's pivot point in your firing hand. By the time that load leaves the barrel the gun is pointing ever so slightly higher and thus prints higher. The taller front sight compensates for this.
However Paul, to support your point, all other things are never equal. Most of my guns are fixed sight big bore guns and one of the ways I "sight" my guns in is through hand loading. Various loads (bullet weights, powder charges, powder types) will print differently, even with the same weight bullet and approximate velocity. I experiment with various loads until I get the group printing where I want with a load that performs within my set parameters. Pretty illustrative of what the original post was talking about.
To "solve" this problem, what I've done in the past is load a heavier bullet in the 44 Special and a lighter bullet in the 44 Mag, pushing both to velocities that give me the performance I want. I can then fine tune the loads to get them somewhat to the same point of aim...if I'm patient enough. But since I'm not normally that patient, I usually develop one load for each of my guns and leave it at that.
Keith