I have to say the best of both worlds is the 638. I have several 42s, 37s, 38s 637, 638s, 36s and 40s...and 49s and 649s ...I like the variety of being able to change my mind.
Plus I am a J frame addict.
The 36=37, 49=38, 40=42. The 36, 49, 40 are steel frame instead of airweights. The 6 means its a SS gun instead of blued or nickel.
Then the ...4xx series are black..and I believe they are all airweights. I am not sure of the coating material but I am sure someone will enlighten us

Then their are the 3xx series Scandium Titanium series ultra lights. Like 11 oz light. I owned a 342PD in .357 for about 2 weeks. After 2 cylinders in .357 mag I sold it in order to keep the nerves in my hand from dying. They make it in the M&P as well and it's rated for .38spl +P. That is more manageable but still a handful on such a light platform.
My favorite J frame that I do not pocket carry is the 649-3 in 357 mag. All steel with a SW combat grips. Very easy to control in a powerful package.
My favorite pocket carry is my 638.