I can think of two possibilities:
#1. The round is hitting something on the way into the chamber -- maybe the top lip of the magazine is deformed. I don't think the round can actually hit the ejector -- I just hand fed a snap-cap into my M&P to check its precise path, and the side of the round in the front does not go near the injector -- the geometry and shape of the slide seem to prevent that. Solution to #1: Assuming you have two mags, does this happen with both of them, or just one? Chuck the bad mag.
#2. It might be hitting the ejection port on the way out -- my Sig SP2022 used to put a nice dent in every round, although further forward on the shell. That could be caused by a weak ejector. Solution to #2: Replace the ejector (per recommendations above).
If you have time, you could take a round and mark it with a magic marker/Sharpie™ (e.g., small dash marks at 3-6-9-and-12 o'clock clockwise around the outside of the shell) and then hand feed it in the chamber, with the number 12 at the top of the chamber, and then shoot it, and then see where the dent occurs. If there are dents/marks at all, it would argue for the dent occurring on extraction, not feeding. If the dents are at 3 o'clock, it would argue for the dent being caused by the ejection port.