I had a long, entertaining talk with the OP. He now has the matter firmly in hand and I made a friend.
Lord, I love this forum.
Good of you to take a personal hand in the matter Rusty !
While this may not be the proper podium for such non-gun matters, it wouldn't surprise me to learn of a very wide-spread interest among many of us, to share in your advice.
I know MY methodology for learning to play, even though quite costly does NOT work for me.
I began many years ago, with a $39 dollar Silvertone Arch-top acoustic, mail ordered, that I just couldn't seem to play. No problem. I saw the solution right off. I needed a better guitar.
Upped my guitar quality,(to a new Harmony) ...no change to guitar playing skill.
Solution well in hand !.. One-hundred dollars to my least favorite cousin for his Gibson J-45......3 Weeks later, mean, hateful, ugly cousin says, "there weren't no return guarantee involved in the deal, you bought it, you keep it".
Shoulda known right off, those Gibson J-45s have a hard set of frets to ever get real good on.
Finally realized my instrument just might be a twelve string acoustic. Look out now, Glen Campbell and Dick Rosmini.
Pawn shop 12 string Epiphone lay-a-way,... plus two weeks overtime at cotton mill,... finally found my guitar niche.
Let me get this straight now: the top string in each key is tuned "standard" and the second smaller string is tuned a full "octave" higher ??? How on earth can you possible tune the high "G" string with out breaking it ?
Who knew ! You can't buy just one guitar string, ("high G"), but only in sets. Another week of overtime at cotton mill for new 12 string sets...."Epi" musta left the factory broke, high G can't be tuned.
Watched Robert Cray in a concert with Eric Clapton. A thunder-clap and a light bulb of knowledge hit me at the same time.
I AM A STRAT MAN. I mean look at those dudes; what could be easier; don't know why I didn't see it before.
Man at music store says, "not much call for a used 12 string, I can't allow you anything on a trade for a Fender Stratocaster, they are hard to come by".......somehow, music store man reminds me greatly of my favorite gun shop owner ! )
"Strat" not my "guitar fit". Maybe a Fender Telecaster ? Nope !
Gibson "Les Paul". Too heavy, makes me tired.
A Fender gut string classical ? Naw, neck too wide. Fender, Red Label FG 360,.... not there yet.
Finally, a Gibson "Hummingbird", in cherry sunburst.
Can I play it any better than the first one I bought ? Nope, but man, it is the prettiest guitar I ever had !!....yet.