I am an eagle scout. Congratulations on the kid.
I have no kids, but my nephew is going through it. From where I stand, I think it's kind of a shame what the Scouts have become. In my day (both me and my brother are Eagle) you didnt get your Eagle until you were 17, or at least 16. It was tough, you learned a lot about life and leadership. Now I see kids getting Eagle at 13 or 14. I ask how one can be a true leader or learn some life lessons by 13. I also see lots of babying of the kids, them not doing very many "tough" things, moms involved (there were zero women/moms when I was in scouts), dumbing down of the requirements to make rank. I did my eagle project a couple months before I turned 18 and had by BOR a couple weeks prior.
I think at it's core, scouting is still good, but I think it needs a kick in the pants. Maybe it's different in other parts of the country. In my nephew's troop, they are allowed to bring electronics, junk food, prepared meals. Had one story of kids bringing subway sanwiches. We were not allowed to have any electronics other than a flashlight (not that there were electronics really, but no radio), no soda or junk food.