Anyone who thinks a 9mm can compare to a 45 is completely ignoring physics.
You can make a 9mm either fast and lighter or slower and heavier.
You can make a 45 lighter and faster or slower and heavier.
You can make similar bullets for both calibers, from light to heavy constructed hollow points, soft points, monolithic copper, lead, serrated what ever.
You can +P both
What can be done to one can be done to the other.
A 45 will always be bigger and heavier. Yes, MxVsq. But, a 9mm, 147 gr at 1000fps=326. A 115gr at 1225fps=383. A 45+P, 230gr at 900=413, A 200gr @ 1000=444. A 165gr 45 @ 1250+572.
In every case the 45 wins out, heavier bullet, bigger bullet, Its light bullets can go as fast as a much lighter 9mm light bullet.
No way no how is a 9mm bullet ever going to match up to a 45 if you compare them fairly. You can pick the best 9mm and pit it against the worst 45 and come out in about a dead heat.
A 9mm handgun's advantages are in size, capacity and recoil.
Power is fine, accuracy is final. If you can sho0t a 45 as well as a 9, your better off unless you have a bunch of assailants or you waste your shots. I got it about suppression fire, but, a fatal wound is the ultimate suppression fire. The odds of being in an out and out everyone blaze away gun battle for the majority is close to zero and if you live so you might find yourself in one, I suggest your tactics include a handy assault rifle.
You want to shoot a high capacity 9, that's fine. Its not a bad plan. Do it be good with it. but don't try to make it a 45acp, cause it isn't one and is never going to be one.
Over time combat bullets have gone smallerr and smaller and faster and faster. But, the round count for KIA is now over 250,00 rounds.
Thats despite a round count of about 1.5 for the snipers firing those big slow bullets.