Are those warning stickers really necessary? Somehow I don't think that an opponent will actually ask to see them if you have to use that gun for defense.
As for a holster suggestion, I happen to like Galco holsters. They are available off the rack at most of my local gunshops, are well made, and have held up very well in daily use. I don't have a J frame so can't comment on one specific to this model, however I do have a K frame OWB with retention that carries high and tight. However, the key to keeping a holster tight to the body isn't the holster as much as the belt it's used with. If you don't have a good carry belt, make sure to get one.
BTW, Galco also makes very good belts, pricey but very very good. Just make sure you try them for fit before buying because Galco's belt sizing is "out to lunch" in term of how they are marked.