Ahhh, don't you just love guys like that! They are perfect ambassadors of fine shooting aren't they? Sometimes, I get more enjoyment out of just going to the range and "observing" guys like that. It is entertainment.
Thankfully, you did not let that deter you from getting one of the best calibers going. Unfortunately, it is saddening that many new shooters ARE discouraged by experiences like that. From a reloader's standpoint, the 44 Mag is wildly versatile as has already been said. I rarely shoot full power loads, and when I do, they are often in big guns like a TC Encore or Ruger Bisley Hunter. Most of the time a sub 1,000fps load is just perfect.
Whenever I take relatively new shooters to the range to shoot my 44's, they always leave amazed how NON-painful it was to shoot. Realoading does have it's benefits.
44's tend to multiply.......fast!
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