I've shot some of these out of a Taurus 605 snubby once, they've definitely got some blast to them. The recoil felt similar to that of hot .45 Long Colt loads.
You obviously are not talking about the same hot 45 Cilt loads I shoot! Even the 180 grain Mihec cast I shoot at over 1450 fps do not even come close to rocking me like the 340 grain WLF I load in my 45 Colt.
Hot loads in shot safely is very subjective, and usually spoken about loads that are only safe in the weakest of revolvers!
But trust me, any 357 mag load, with 125 grain bullets, or any weight bullet for that matter, are quite tame compared to true heavy Colt loads made for true big game hunting revolvers, which do exceed 44 magnum loads with less pressure! Been there, done that!
For reference: I'm talking about 225gr loads doing about 1200fps. I know there are hotter loads out there, but I said "hot" not atomic.
Purchased a box of XTP on sale the other day never fired a hot .357 mag. Fired four cartridges out of 686 and wow what a blast! If a newbie ask why use +P they need to experience one these.
357 mag loaded the way it was supposed to be loaded isn't for the limp wristed. Probably why the model 27 was a thing a year after the 357 was first introduced.