I read decades ago (the numbers have likely changed), that only something like 10% of military members are even in "trigger-puller" jobs, let alone in a combat zone, let alone in action. And remember that "trigger-puller" doesn't just mean infantry, it includes artillery, rocketry and all that, besides things like AF F/A guys or naval gunners, or even Marines, I guess some of them qualify. (Sorry, couldn't help it!

) I always mention that it's kinda hard to get into & out of action without that 90%, and the beans, bullets and toilet paper are always appreciated.
two-bit cowboy's frank admission of "I didn't serve for you" kind of hit home. Post 9/11 I suppose things were different, but when I was in I knew a lot of guys like me who had volunteered basically for the adventure. Heck I knew a couple guys in the 82d and the 2d/75th who had signed up for jump school just for the extra $12 a month or whatever it was jump pay. Then there are the legions who actually sign up for three hots and a cot, but you didn't tend to see them in the Infantry.
I've only saluted a fellow vet once. About fifteen or twenty years ago I was driving near downtown Phoenix when I spot a car up ahead in the next lane with a Medal of Honor license plate. I pull up alongside and this guy is driving:
Silvestre Herrera, Medal of Honor
He looks over and I just instinctively saluted. He seemed a little surprised but returned the salute. Wish he was still around so I could do it again.
That's some Tango Mike Mike sh... stuff right there.
I had one top sergeant who told the company that a salute had to do with respect, not just rank. If we saw an enlisted man, E-1 or whatever, who we thought deserved it, a salute would be fine. I've never knowingly met an MoH awardee, but it would certainly merit a salute in my book.