Much of the pleasure of reloading is like cooking, baking, or woodworking-you find that magical "just right". If your main interest in accuracy there is a great deal of satisfaction in finding the load that is say markedly more accurate than the cheapest factory ammunition and not all that more expensive.
Although in the digital age there are professionally produced DVDs and not so professional ones, I reccomend doing it the old fashioned way-reading, reading and more reading. Like cooking or woodworking you must learn to follow directions, work step by step and remember no steps are unimportant no can they be skipped.
The book "The ABCs of Reloading" is excellent, many of the component companies-Lyman, Speer, Lee-produce their own manuals that naturally favor their own products.
Like so many, I started with a Lee Loader, then graduated to a Lyman 310 tool, finally to an RCBS Jr, now an RCBS 4x4. I reccomend either the Lee or Lyman hand presses for a starting reloader, you will use the same dies you will later use on your bench mounted press while at the same time learning reloading procedures and seeing how they follow logically.