Welcome to the forum. I hope we can help with your decisions and search.
I don’t have any specific brand suggestions as I don’t know anyone who carries this way, and I don’t recall much discussion of it on this forum. You may have more luck asking the question in our Concealed Carry subforum.
I think you will find modifying the grip for carry is easier than finding or making a cross draw holster that fully covers the grip.
There are few cross draw holsters out there as it is a poor option for concealed carry.
*The reverse grip angle necessary for a proper draw lowers the grip toward the belt and makes it hard to draw. You don’t have as much room to get your hand between the grip and your belt for a full firing grip unless the gun sits up pretty high. Then you have a problem with it wanting to tilt outward. With a straight vertical grip angle your wrist will be greatly contorted, and of course a forward cant (FBI) is a no-go, making the grip even harder to get to.
*Reaching across your body is relatively slow and telegraphs your draw. The distance to the grip added to the distance necessary to swing the gun up on target is also a disadvantage in both time and distance.
*The swing motion is both lateral and vertical, making it a harder draw stroke to learn and control.
*It may be more difficult to access while running or grappling. *Because of the angle of the muzzle pointing back toward your hip, you may have limited choices for mounting the holster in a comfortable and accessible position, especially with widely spaced attachment points.
*Accessing anything from the nearby pocket may require moving your covering garment enough to display the grip of the gun.
*In a seated position it may be uncomfortable pointing toward your hip.
Other than these drawbacks, cross draw might work, just not better than a number of other positions.
A few holsters offer a very adjustable grip angle, including reverse angle, that you could set yourself. If you do find such a holster in Kydex or leather, you could add a “wing” of material off of a full sweat shield that covers the whole slide of the gun. Hokey, but possible. It would need to be very stiff so as not to interfere with your draw and re-holstering.
Some of the hybrid leather/Kydex holsters have a back side of leather that usually covers the grip, but that leather has been known to soften over time, droop, and interfere with your draw and re-holstering. They also take up a lot of space on the belt.
Many posters have noted the same problem with the 2.0 aggressive grip texture. Options include:
1. Add an aftermarket grip enhancement like a rubberized Talon Grip, Brooks Tactical AGrip, or a Hogue rubber grip sleeve. Listed in my order of preference.
2. Wear a T-shirt
3. Sand the high points of the grip texture, especially on the skin side of the grip, until it is more comfortable. This is the cheapest and probably most effective way to adjust your grip, but unlike the other suggestions, it permananerly alters your gun.
Your life will be much simpler if you consider Appendix IWB or a 3:30-4 o’clock carry position.