You are using 25-35 reloading dies of some brand I take it.
They must be Expanding the neck of the case at some point in the process.
If all you need is something to flare the case mouth for seating the cast lead bullets,,then just about anything of that shape tapped into the neck of the sized case will do.
I use a dead center from a Lathe,,a simple tapered steel point.
Others use different empty bottle neck rifle cases inserted and lightly tapped with a hammer.
A .223 might work well here.
The amt of flare put on the mouth can be quite uniform when doing it this way and it is extremely fast to do.
Set the cases up on a flat hard surface and bounce from one to the other with the flare tool and hammer.
If the cases are just plainly too small in dia after the expander button does it job and the flaring step does not help matters (necks crumple when seating bullets) , then you need an Expander Button a couple .000 bigger in dia.
Lyman 'M' die was the old solution for this when seating cast bullets.
It internally sized the neck and flared the case mouth in one pass.
I don't know if they still sell them.
I like the Lathe center lying on my bench better. one size fits all but it does not resize the internal neck dia of course.