I wouldn't worry about the 185 gr load, the 230 gr is pretty much the defacto standard due to many years of use and the standard military load. My Springfield U/C shoots the 185 gr loads into 3" at 10 yds offhand which is by far more accurate than any 230 gr load I've tried. The book is still out on what my Sig P250 45 likes, but that is because I've not had it that long to get any serious range time with it. Once you have had a chance to get some range time in and a decent break in period get some 185, 200 and 230 gr loads and see which your gun likes best. I've also heard good and bad results from people trying to use 165 gr defensive loads. Bottom line try some different loads and see what your gun likes.