I've carried a 3" 686+ and a 2 1/2" 686+ as well as a 2 1/2" Model 66 and a 3" Model 19.
I've also carried Ruger 2 3/4" Speed sixes and Security Sixes.
Here's my take on things:
- The 3" barrel isn't noticeably heavier than a 2 1/2" barrel but it does produce more velocity with .357 Magnum loads.
- The 3" barrel isn't any harder to carry or conceal, so on balance if the choice is between a 2 1/2", 2 3/4" or 3" barrel, get the 3".
- The 686+ will be about 4 oz heavier than a Model 66 in the same barrel length (40 oz loaded versus 36 oz loaded). The Speed and Security Six split the difference at about 38 oz loaded. However, with a well designed holster and carry belt there is zero difference in comfort. Both can be comfortably carried all day.
- The size differences are over blown. The 686 is a bit wider in the cylinder than the Model 66, but most leather K frame holsters will accommodate an L frame (snugly), so the difference literally isn't much. What difference there is in width can be offset by or over shadowed by the holster design.
- Someone commented that a Model 66 will be less comfortable when shooting it. I disagree. The 4 oz difference is weight makes it even easier to shoot the 686 with .357 Magnum loads, but at 36 oz, a Model 66 is still comfortable to shoot all day with .357 Magnum loads.
- In terms of recoil reduction you'll get a lot more benefit by moving away from loads using heavy charges of slow burning powder. The recoil is significantly greater with 20-21 grains of powder exiting the muzzle at about 3x the velocity of the bullet than is the case with 8-9 grains of a medium burn rate powder. In a 2 3/4" or 3" barrel the difference in muzzle velocity will be in the 0 to 50 fps range:
Slow burning powder:
Charge Weight: 21.0 gr
Muzzle Velocity: 1300.0 ft/s
Firearm Weight: 2.4 lb
Bullet Weight: 125.0 gr
Recoil Velocity: 15.5 ft/s
Recoil Energy: 9.0 ft•lbs
Recoil Impulse: 1.2 lb•s
Medium burning powder:
Charge Weight: 9.0 gr
Muzzle Velocity: 1300.0 ft/s
Firearm Weight: 2.4 lb
Bullet Weight: 125.0 gr
Recoil Velocity: 12.2 ft/s (21% less)
Recoil Energy: 5.5 ft•lbs (39% less)
Recoil Impulse: 0.9 lb•s (25% less)
Load selection makes a LOT more difference than 4 oz of revolver weight.