Secret to a Long Marriage

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A very senior couple, both mid 80's were asked how long they had been married. 65 years was the answer.

When asked the secret of their long marriage, the wife answered, "we both have keys to the gun cabinet".

You know what makes this post credible? They said "gun cabinet", when was the last time you saw one of those still in use to hold guns? :D
 
My wife bought me mine about 1974.:D I do have a 48 gun safe. 38 more & it will be full.:)

I feel your pain. I am saving for a new lap top then will be hopefully getting at least two new guns this year. Since i restarted collecting in 2013--I averaged one gun a year but still woefully short of the number i intend to own before all is said and done.
 
I once saw an interview of just such a couple. The wife was asked first and she when on and on, suggesting that both had to have shared value system, activities, views on parenting, mutual respect, devotion, commitment to each other in good times and bad, yada, yada, yada. Her answer was like 10 minutes of air time.
When the husband was asked the same question, his one sentence reply was: "Stay out of each other's way".

Words to live by in my book. There must be something to it, as we just celebrated our 25th year, last week.
 
Long marriages are not made in heaven, they are made from years and years of toleration. :D

Kids (that shows how old I am) these days think marriage should be a bed of roses. Seldom do things go the way you or your spouse want. You'll also have disagreements, it comes with the territory. Getting through these hard knocks and tough times make a marriage better. Neither can expect to "win" an argument. I'm married 46 years now and we get along just fine. We still have our problems but we manage to get by quite well.
 
Clearly I don't know the secret. None of my three lasted over thirteen years. In fairness, I think the last one would have had real staying power if she hadn't died after nine years.

My parents were married for 64 years and change, and my mother always said they never exchanged cross words. This is one of a number of lies she told me, but they surely did a lot of things right.
 
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