The Aging Process

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To What degree have you lost energy and drive as you have aged?

For me, it began in my mid 50’s. I became aware, I would get tired after being up and working for 8 or 9 hours. It was mostly an inability to maintain a high level of focus and concentration that is required for many activities. There was a slow but steady decline in my ability to remain focused over the next 10 to 12 years and by age 67 I was having difficulty working physically more than 3 hours a day or concentrating on technical matters more than about a half a day.

In addition my short term memory which was never my strong suit to begin with, declined as well.

Today just a few months short of 70 I can walk for an hour more or less with no problem. However if I try doing an hour and half walk each day I start having pretty good pains and aches. Trying to remember random numbers is more than a struggle, it is almost impossible. Worse I can at times get up to go get something and forget what I was going for before I get there. LOL

My powers of concentration are at best 35 to 40 percent of what they were in my youth, and my physical stamina is closer to 20 to 25 percent of what it was in my youth.

Due to the sensitive nature of the viewers of this site, I will not even go into some other declines I have experienced. LOL

My metabolism has slowed down so that if I eat anything close to what I would like to I gain weight very quickly, so I am in a constant state of dieting.

I was just wondering if others were experiencing the same decline in both physical and mental abilities as they enter the so-called golden years.
 
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you ain't alone my friend turned 59 a few months back. and i can feel the difference from last year. walking on flat ground i am ok but walking up a slight grade to my deer stand not so good. the bad news is my deer stand is less than 200 yds from my back door. to add insult to injury i missed a big fat doe at about 50 yds.can't see open sights on my marlin 38/55 lever in less than good light. my spelling is getting tougher. have to back up and re spell words i used to have no problem with.the good news is not everyone gets to grow old we are privlleged see what i mean can't spell priviledged.
 
I was just wondering if others were experiencing the same decline in both physical and mental abilities as they enter the so-called golden years.
Sounds like you are doing damn well compared to me. :o

According to Bam-Bam's formula, I've got just 4-1/2 good years left... but in reality, I think I've already used up all of my good years. :( At least it feels that way today and for several weeks now. :o I see my doctors 3 times as often as I see my kids and I fear that ratio is going to take a step increase in the next few weeks and months. :( As we speak, I am taking my pulse and blood pressure... and neither looks terribly good. :( Damn, I wish those stupid alarms would stop going off. :rolleyes:

This whole getting old thing is for the birds. :o
 
You are preaching to the choir. I am 58 and starting to feel it. I am having surgery on my left foot due to arthritis and will the do the right after the left heals. Hopefully, I can get back into walking. I am told my feet will be pain free. Maybe then I can do something with my knees. My mind is still sharp but my father developed Alzheimer's in his mid 70s and so did all of my uncles on my dad's side.
 
Aging

I have friend that just cut his working hours down to 4 a day. He was 95 in Nov. He is a commercial wood turner. Another friend complains he can't do what he used to do 4-5 years ago. He's 85. I saw him shinny up a 30ft tree a couple of months ago to trim some branches. I can't climb a 30ft ladder. Just turned 68 and can't keep up with either of them. I'm assuming two skull fractures, neck broken twice, one knee replacement, one heart attack,3 stints, a ruined shoulder,and more broken ribs than I remember don't help the process of aging but I didn't think it would be this bad. Should have lived a more sedimentary life.
 
It's a game of revised expectations and trade-offs. No use fighting it, embrace it. Look forward to that mid-afternoon nap. Do what you can, while you can, and don't sweat that it's half what it used to be.

I experienced my big degradation, all at once eleven years ago, as a result of life-saving medical treatment. I knew the side effects to expect, and it's harder on my husband than on me, but he's been a saint throughout.

Hang in there buddy. ;)
 
My heart surgery in '01 didn't slow me down. The pacemaker and ablation in '11 was but a hiccup. The stage IV head and neck cancer of two years has all but taken my landing gear out.

Mobility is difficult due to the hip arthritis bestowed upon me by chemo.

Between beer, meds and the occasional piece of burnt rope, I get along OK. I'm better off than others and grateful for it.
 
I'm not yet 60 and was kicked by prostate cancer with a subsequent surgery two years ago then hernia surgery this year. The prostatectomy acted as the trigger for a debilitating case of rheumatoid arthritis and it all makes me not so anxious to turn 60!
 
I am 71 and have enjoyed good health all my life. (other than 2 bouts of pneumonia) This past year is when age began to take its toll on me. Same complaints others have mentioned. Not quite the stamina I used to have, the old night vision has deteriorated some, and the usual litany of aches and pains. Overall, I consider myself blessed. I have many friends who haven't lived this long and others with serious health problems. Life has been good to me. Having a good wife for soon to be 52 years has helped!
 
I was in pretty good shape until a little over a year ago when I went down a flight of stairs every which way but the right way. Never been seriously ill or injured in my life. Then Wham! compression fractures/arthritis in my back leaves me in pain most of the time, most of the time I can ignore it but not always.

If I'd known I was going to live this long I'd have taken better care of myself, naw, Still drink, smoke, eat unhealthy stuff, drive too fast.
Life is not for the meek or timid. Let's go ride a roller coaster!
 
Well, this is a very uplifting thread. :) I am about to turn 62. In 98 I nearly died from a lung disease from automotive paint. Recovered from that one and it is completely gone but got sick last fall and it turns out I have a second lung disease unrelated to the other. I have been in education for 31 years, administration for the past 17 of those. I have normally worked 10-14 hour days for years but no more. I am trying to keep it at 10 or less. I take naps (just what I was doing before answering this thread), I have less tolerance for people who don't listen and just do heir own thing, hearing is shot, no aids yet, memory is OK near as I can tell. Cant climb a ladder like I once did, once a very good athlete, the stamina (lungs), and balance are not there but for my age I can still outwork guys in their 40's and 50's most of he time. I don't let things bother me and having a large to do list bugs me because I know I cant get as much done as in the past. Last May had a small TIA but nothing since. Yep, getting older is not a picnic. I am often told I look much younger than 62, have all of my hair (girls loved it when I was in HS) and it is lightly gray sprinkled in. Cant pee like I use to, doc says a rotter router job is coming up some day. I have already turned in my retirement for June and plan to do some part time stuff, nothing serious, I just want to enjoy life going forward.
 
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I can't move as fast as I used to but what I notice most is the decline in my physical strength. Something I would have hoisted up on the truck with ease just a few years ago now remains on the ground while my muscles feel like I just tore something loose. :(

I can still concentrate pretty well, but now it takes A LOT more effort. Often I will just say "why bother?"

My hearing was always great and is still quite good. I can hear things much younger folks can't. But now I have this constant ringing in my ears. Man that is tough to live with! :(

As for "other abilities", let me just say "I hear you" and stay within the Forum Rules. :o
 
At age 72 I have good, bad, and fair days. This is the first year in 50 years that I didn't go deer hunting here in Ohio due to afib and worrying about heart surgery, which didn't happen for a good reason. Really miss that special morning and evening time in the stand.

Sense of balance and stamina have dwindled. Every Fall, the wife and I collect Paw paws and have to wade across a rocky shallow 40ft wide creek. Can't do it without a walking stick and have to go quarter speed.

My heart is in normal rhythm now and they'll do an ablation in February to keep it there.

We all seem to have our own "row to hoe" so to speak. It's comforting, in some strange twisted way, to share these mortality thoughts with each other.

I still imagine and dream of the elk hunt in my next life, and of those special wilderness areas I've seen in days gone by.

Dave
 
OP,

I am a few years older than you and I can tell you one thing, IT AIN"T GOING TO GET ANY BETTER!!!
 
Today is as good as it gets. It's all down hill from here on out. I thought that real comforting, he's 77 and I heading for 64. My ole Dad use to say that you'll live till you die if something doesn't kill ya first!

I used to love spending time with my old neighbor, Bud, when he was alive. Wounded in the Battle of the Bulge, he was deaf as a stone, always counted on saying things twice when speaking with him. He died at age 92.

He used to say, "I'll eat when I'm hungry and drink when I'm dry.
And if a tree don't fall on me I'll live 'til I die".

Dave
 
I'm only 53, and in very good health. But my endurance isn't what it used to be. Especially since I shattered a knee and couldn't walk for over 4 months a couple of years ago. The amount of stamina lost in that short time was amazing, and I'm still trying to regain it.

My hearing hasn't been good for a long time and it's getting worse. I'm now wearing my first set of TRI-focals. I'm actually starting to consider lasik correction because the glasses are getting to be such a pain in the tukas.

Getting older really sucks - but it beats the alternative!
 
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