Wedding Ring

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Today I went shopping for a present for my wife's birthday this Saturday. I went to the same jewelry store we've been using since we pick out the engagement ring in September 1977. I got her two pair of very nice ear rings, one for her birthday and one for Christmas (unless I need a diversion for a gun purchase!) I also picked up two very nice Swiss Army Knives for myself. Everything totaled just below $1200 with tax.

While I was waiting for the gift wrapping to be completed, I was strolling around the engagement and bridal rings. I saw the non valuable size and style sampler sitting out and fitted myself with the size 11.5 sample I saw the style of my original ring. That got me to thinking: We gave our rings to friends that were being sued by the State of Michigan for having a Church/School in 1979. I replaced the rings about a year to eighteen months later and lost it within a few weeks, replaced that one and lost it a month or two latter. I gave up on me wearing a ring, and didn't think about it until about two years ago. I didn't want to appear to be an old dude hiding the fact that I was married from young and nubile ladies! I ask a pawn shop to keep an eye out for a replacement, but they just scrap everything that comes in the door.

That brings me to this afternoon. My first ring was paid for by my bride, $62, he band was $39. When I bought the replacements a few years later 1980/81, they were just over double the original prices. ($143 & $84). The ring I priced today is a white gold 6mm band with milled edges. The first price they gave me was $6200, but that was for platinum. The same band in white gold was ONLY $1500 + tax!

I will continue to walk the land with a naked left hand!

Ivan
 
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About 20 years ago I took off my wedding ring and stuck it in my pocket while working on my car. When I went back into the house I took it out of my pocket and put in my dresser drawer, it's been there ever since.
 
A year or two after we married, I woke up one morning and found my ring on the carpeted floor next to the bed. I slept on the right side of the bed and of course the ring was on my left hand, so I'm not sure how it got there. It had never come off by itself before or since.

I do take it off when I go to the Wanenmacher gun shows in Tulsa. All that walking with my arms hanging at my sides makes my hands swell.
 
I wore my wedding band after we were first married. However, when I entered LE I discovered 2 issues that caused me to put my wedding ring up. First, I started shooting a lot and I found that my wedding band would take the hide off my knuckles on my right hand in recoil. Second, it was common for drunks and belligerent arrestees to threaten the arresting officer's family. My solution, was to remove my wedding band and then just tell the threatening arrestees that I didn't have any family and they were wasting their breath. That always left them to just threaten me. I explained the situations to my wife (at the time) and she understood. I NEVER gave her any reason to think that I might not be wearing it inorder to deceive other women, not in my nature.
 
About 20 years ago I took off my wedding ring and stuck it in my pocket while working on my car. When I went back into the house I took it out of my pocket and put in my dresser drawer, it's been there ever since.

Tradework made my fingers swell. I had it resized once- not a trivial exercise with an iridium ring, think carbide end mill- and as my fingers got thicker I just put it in the drawer. Probably been 20 years for me as well.

I'm no longer pretty enough to be of interest to nubile young ladies anyway.:o
 
I wore my wedding band for about one week. Then one day at work it tried to rip my finger off. :eek:
I never put it back on. In fact my wife wore it along with her's till the day she passed.
When my younger son got engaged, I gave our wedding set to them. They used the stones and gold to design a unique set special to them. ;)
 
I have never worn a wedding ring, or for that matter, any kind of ring or jewelry, except for a wrist watch. It bothers the hell out of me to wear a ring, and I have tried. Fortunately, that has never become a bone of contention with my wife.
 
I will continue to walk the land with a naked left hand!

Ivan

My hands look like a jewelry store, but without a wedding department. I just find some neat rings and if not too expensive end up buying them. When I go into a regular jewelry store I tell them I'm looking for stuff that is vintage, like me :D. I still need to find one big enough for my left index finger.
 
Ivan - congrats on the new ring. I almost never wear a wedding ring around the house, but always when I go out anywhere. I still have my original 14k gold band, but only wear it occasionally. For everyday wear I have several bands made of tungsten to match various watches. They're inexpensive, look good, and extremely durable. I haven't put a scratch on one yet.
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