I presume "hot" .357 ammo (as in the originally published figures) would/should run 1550 FPS, 158-gr bullet, 8-3/8" barrel. I don't think even the original .357 factory loads actually did that, from what I have read. I have never had any cartridges to chronograph, but that notion has appeared often enough over the years that I gather it is accepted.
In my experience, about 100 FPS less than that is all I feel I can safely get using published data, in my guns, with my chronograph. In the shorter barrels, the velocities vary accordingly. So, in my case, any .357 cracking 1400 FPS, is moving right along. I do have a friend in Wyoming who seems to routinely get 100 FPS more than I do with almost any load we discuss. I have accused him of being a transplanted Texan, which he denies, so we just agree that I have "denser air" here in Indiana.
The controversy about light bullets in K-frames is a mystery to me. On one hand, the idea to avoid them makes sense. On the other hand, I think the idea to just avoid the steady use of magnum loads in general, unless you need them, is probably a better approach.
I don't like 125-gr .357s anyway, so I never use them, but I do deliberately try to spare the wear and tear on my K-frame magnums by keeping my .357 loads on what I consider to be the mild side. My .357s for general use, in all my guns, run around 1100-1200 FPS, just because I do not want to load different loads for different guns. If I need more power than that, I have a few other guns.
The remarks from the gunshop salesman are just... "remarks."
