Ask yourself this question. Do you want to learn to ride a motorcycle or do you want to putt around on something that looks good and will draw attention to you? A Harley is a fine bike for a beginning rider because its performance is so limited it will never demand any real skill from you. And they do look good. But you will never become much of a rider on a Harley. The few Harley riders that can really ride a motorcycle started out on something else, usually in some kind of racing, and ended up on Harleys when they wanted to slow down.
If you really want to ride, get something else. I can suggest half a dozen bikes in the price range of a Sportster that are better motorcycles in every respect, and will do everything a Sportster can do plus much, much more.
Whatever you do, get rider training, the MSF course or its equivalent.
Like Marshwheeling - I agree with the MSF course - TAKE IT BEFORE you go for a putt!
Other wise - I cannot express in words my thoughts on the rest of his ******** post - None of them are allowed here.
I've erased the rest of my tirade............. Thrice