*Updated 3/18/2016* How NOT to self-defend with a pistol

Thanks, guys, for your opinions and observations on this.

For sure, plenty of stupid to go around when these two vehicles crossed paths.

A couple of observations related to the handgun in this incident:

1. It's not clear from the video, but apparently the wife pointed the pistol at the two younger men, probably before she becomes visible on the left side of the picture. She was charged with two counts of assault by pointing a weapon. Notice how the two assailants broke off the attack about that same time? Even if it worked for her, though, she wasn't legally justified in introducing the pistol into the situation at that point, since her husband (just my opinion) was not in imminent danger of death or serious physical injury at that particular moment. If she pointed the gun at them, as a threat to get them to stop hitting her husband, she has to accept the consequences of being charged as she was.

2. It's dangerous to be a Good Samaritan in a situation that you don't witness from the start. Imagine if you had walked up on that fight, one guy getting whaled on by two, and you not knowing he had started it by punching the driver. With the fight still at the "fists only" stage, escalating it by introducing a firearm into the equation isn't legally justified. And if you did, all of a sudden you are paired up with the bozo who had cornered the other two in a driveway, approached them threateningly, punched one through the open window, and was in the process of getting his "payback".

On the other hand, if another minute had gone by, the two had the other on the ground and were starting to pound his head into the concrete while he was defenseless, at THAT point, intervention with a higher level of violence would be justified. Point is, a matter of a few seconds can make all the difference.

3. Handing a loaded weapon to someone whose adrenaline is already off the scale, first from anger, then from the fight, was like handing a match to a guy holding a leaky five-gallon gasoline can. Terrible, terrible idea. By that point, the two assailants had stopped the assault, the "victim" was relatively unhurt, and what had been bad enough was for all practical matters over. From that point, though, things headed south again in a hurry.

4. Shooting up the assailants' truck (not shown in the video; it happened a few minutes later) was stupid of a whole other order of magnitude. One of the worst choices on an afternoon full of them.

I hope, once this all shakes out, that it turns out the guy with the gun wasn't a CC permit holder, maybe wasn't even supposed to own a gun, and will get smacked hard in court for the example it will provide to the other yahoos out there just like him. They all give those of us who try to be responsible CC'ers and pistol owners a black eye. No pun intended.

I'll keep a lookout in the coming months on how this plays out in the courts, and let you know.
 
Unless the kids did run him off road, then i say that is the first attack

thats a piece of info we dont have. probability would point to the kid being a lousy driver ... just like we once were.
what we have left is another fact of the orientation of vehicles.
teen mobile in front with the man wife team pulling up behind.
guess a police report and a plate number wasn't enough for him if he were so assaulted .... nope ... still with the kids on this one.
with age should come the wisdom to break off a pursuit to save some pain.
 
HUH?

This post does not make sense. :confused:

Who is "they" that left and what "guy's" truck got shot?

Also, guns don't go off "accidently" (sic) when the slide is racked.

Be safe.

It accidently fired when he racked the slide after she gave it to him. Then they left and came back about 10 minutes later and shot up the guy's truck. The guys were in the house at that point and didn't come back outside.
Check out some of the latest updates on the story.

That hotheaded bish got azzwhupped by 2 kids, one of which was wearing striped pajama pants. How humiliating is that.
 
I just watched the news account of this story, and it looks like a prosecutor's dream. A guy gets road rage, and follows a vehicle 40 miles. He proceeds to block the vehicle in a driveway with his own, then approaches the driver's side door in a confrontational manner, resulting in the rager throwing a punch at the driver. The driver gets out with his passenger and proceeds to fight back, ending with the road rager bloodied and on the ground. The driver and his passenger turn back to their vehicle as the rager's wife enters the fray with gun drawn. The news reported that the rager and his wife left, only to return later and fire a shot into the windshield of the parked vehicle they originally followed.

The rager and his wife should be charged and convicted of assault and menacing, as well as anything else feasible. They should have their CCWs immediately revoked, as they failed to show any semblance of emotional and physical restraint consistent with responsible gun ownership. They should also find religion and thank God they weren't shot dead after attacking the driver they followed. These two cretins make us all look bad, and should have the proverbial hammer dropped on them asap.
 
Here's what bothers me. We/you all talk about the 2A. Well guess what we also have innocent until proven guilty!!!!! You all have him convicted already! You might have all the info or just a tiny bit of what happened! Stop playing judge and jury from your desk!

Do i think he was wrong, probably. Do i know.... NO!
 
Here's what bothers me. We/you all talk about the 2A. Well guess what we also have innocent until proven guilty!!!!! You all have him convicted already! You might have all the info or just a tiny bit of what happened! Stop playing judge and jury from your desk!

Do i think he was wrong, probably. Do i know.... NO!

And if the kids ran him off road he should have killed them.
so capitol punishment sans due process would be ok if between the ages of 11 and 18 ......
 
Here's what bothers me. We/you all talk about the 2A. Well guess what we also have innocent until proven guilty!!!!! You all have him convicted already! You might have all the info or just a tiny bit of what happened! Stop playing judge and jury from your desk!

Do i think he was wrong, probably. Do i know.... NO!

People are posting responses and opinions based on the news story, and more importantly, the video footage. Absent any additional information to refute what was filmed, the video speaks for itself.
 
I agree with the general consensus here and I believe it was a dumb move. If your carrying following them to their house and then starting a fight is a dumb move in my book. He should have avoided it and just went on his way. Throw a middle finger if you have to but don't chase them down, only to end up the way this is going. Worst of all aother news video I just saw said they had their 4 yr old daughter with them... SMH

NEW INFO: Road Rage Suspects Both In Courtroom
 
Amazing how a bad day or attitude and a few seconds worth of bad choices can turn your life to misery. These days, venting your anger on others is not a good idea. Thank God I'm not in their position.
 
Friend of mine served five years in state prison for introducing a pistol into a fist fight. Judge said, "You were the victim until you pulled the pistol." He got into a road rage, they stopped to duke it out and the other guy beat my friend down and walked off. Friend pulled his 1911 and drew down on the other guy. Other guy had been drinking and walked up to the 1911 and grabbed it like the Lone Ranger, causing it to discharge. .45 hit his aeorta and the nasty boy bled out. Judge said he shoulda called the cops, not played cop. FIVE YEARS...my friends mother AND favorite dog both died while he was behind the walls.

An old timer used to admonish, "They can't cut you off if you let them in."

I call it testosterone poisoning.
 
In this case, I really don't see how it matters what happened before the video of the incident. Actually, that's the point here -- especially for us CC'ers, and why I think this video is a good reminder about the legal limitations on drawing one's weapon in a given situation.

The reason it doesn't matter has nothing to do with whether Mr. Turner was justified in provoking the assault by walking up and punching the driver through an open window. The fistfight was the fistfight, right or wrong, no matter what happened beforehand. Introducing the gun into the equation is what tips the scales. It was absolutely wrong, unjustifiable, stupid, dangerous, and fortunately, not lethal or critically injuring to anyone involved.

I respect every poster's opinion on this thread that I began. I must say, though, that in at least one case, I fervently hope the poster does not have a CC permit, or if he/she does, that additional training and review of proper use of force will happen and happen soon. Otherwise, I think the individual has a very good chance of getting hurt or killed needlessly and unjustifiably -- or worse, causing someone else to be -- if ever presented with a draw-or-don't-draw, shoot-or-don't-shoot encounter.

On the other hand, sometimes posters will play the devil's advocate just to spice up the discussion and get others worked up in the process. Fine. But for the greatest part, the posters on the Forum, I think, value human life and accept the grave responsibility that comes with carrying a concealed weapon. For those folks, and their well-informed and helpful opinions, I thank you.
 
The reason it doesn't matter has nothing to do with whether Mr. Turner was justified in provoking the assault by walking up and punching the driver through an open window. The fistfight was the fistfight, right or wrong, no matter what happened beforehand. Introducing the gun into the equation is what tips the scales. It was absolutely wrong, unjustifiable, stupid, dangerous, and fortunately, not lethal or critically injuring to anyone involved.
In my opinion, it's also wrong to get into a fistfight over pretty much anything. Even if the guys cut him off, then laughed about it, shot him the bird, called his mother a whore, etc., etc., he didn't have a right to go up to them and throw a punch.
 
Bullschit! Regardless of what led up to the confrontation, he had no right to go up to the guy's vehicle and start throwing punches.



Agree. (Well. maybe not on the "Bullschit" part); But, Legally, I don't think anything usually justifies re-starting an altercation after the other folks have clearly and completely broken off, no matter how wrong they might have been initially. That generally would negate any claim of of self-defense -- most times, even if it would have been justified otherwise.

Agree with Vigil617 on the point of elevation of force to a level not justified by circumstances as we know them.

Disparity of force would be argued, but there probably wasn't enough force applied to make it a really strong point. If the older guy was literally getting his head pounded in (so that apprehension of death, etc., were reasonable), this might complicate a claim that pulling the gun was necessary, but I doubt it would save his self-defense claim, legally, if he had to shoot somebody at that point. It might mitigage punishment, or the jury might help him out with a "compromise" verdict, but technically he'd probably be toast.

(And, of course, agree with those who suggest that if we are relying on the "media" to tell us what happened, we may not know what happened at all. But, for the sake of discussion ... )
 
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The Stand Your Ground law in my state is pretty clear. You can't incite and then shoot in self-defense when someone reacts.

Yes, there is due process, but there is also a video which paints a pretty clear picture of what happened....this guy followed trouble and escalated it. They'd better invest in a great lawyer.

Tracy
 
"be interested in any thoughts or opinions..."


People and water seek their own level.
What in the world were a couple of adults thinking, behaving like that? Now the presence of the gun ended the beef soon as the kids saw it, they ran. Big daddy should have said thanks, got in the passenger side and let his wife drive home. No shots fired...but no, she hands a loaded gun to an adreneline pumped man with a bruised ego. Bad decision series. Hopefully they will get some training and learn the law as it applies.
This is what happens without training.
 
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One thing I was thinking, imagine if the kids run into the house & there father was there.
And see's the guy pointing a gun at his kid & he had a gun. He has just cause to shoot & defend his kid life?
 
One thing I was thinking, imagine if the kids run into the house & there father was there.
And see's the guy pointing a gun at his kid & he had a gun. He has just cause to shoot & defend his kid life?

He sure would. Iowa you can use lethal force if anyones life is in danger, not just your own. So your kid and his friends come sprinting through the door yelling and you look out and theres a man following them with a gun? Hopefully dads not a very good shot if your the moron chasing down the kids with a gun : p
 
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