Interesting experience at a "no firearms allowed" restaurant

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This past week I had an interesting experience while visiting my son in Madison, WI. We went out for dinner, and as we entered the restaurant I saw the "No firearms allowed" sign in the window (I was not carrying), so I asked to speak with the manager.

I asked him why the sign was there, since he surely knew that a criminal, intent on doing harm, was not going to obey the sign, and that all the sign accomplishes is to discourage lawfully carrying patrons from being prepared to defend themselves and others should the need arise. He seemed really confused, stating several times that the sign was intended to keep guns out of the restaurant, thus making it "safer" for everyone. I again asked him if he really believed that the sign would stop a criminal, and he hemmed and hawed and then said, "well, having a no gun policy makes the customers feel safer, knowing that the person sitting at the next table is not carrying a loaded gun". So I again asked him, what is more important, actual safety, i.e., where law abiding citizens are able to stop a criminal, or the false perception of safety of having everyone make believe that a sign stops thugs were coming into the restaurant? He just kept repeating, it makes customers feel safer.

I also asked him if he was aware that most of the multiple-shooting incidents that have occurred in recent years have taken place is supposedly safe, "gun-free" zones, and that this might not be a coincidence. Maybe criminals actively choose such settings, hoping to be able to create mayhem unopposed. He did not respond to this comment at all.

I ended the conversation by telling him that I can legally carry in his state, and that had I been armed I would have obeyed his sign and taken the family to another restaurant. That didn't seem to faze him at all.

What was really discouraging about the whole incident was that my son, who is in law enforcement, seems to agree with this manager that having a "no guns allowed" policy makes him, and likely other customers "feel" safer. Amazing and sad.
 
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The sheeple like to eat in peace....they think a sign on the fence that reads NO WOLVES will keep the critters out....vote with your wallets guys...send a letter and let them know how you feel....have all your like minded, cash carrying, food eating friends sign it too....
 
I AGREE IN THEORY

In reality you are never gonna change a real anti's mind, just like they aren't gonna change our minds. Neither really appreciates a sermon on why we should flip sides. If/when the owner/corporate realize the sign may actually be endangering/losing customers as well as costing them $, then they might see the light. My 2 cents.
 
Madison, WI. I unfortunately live here and that's the way the sheeple think. I like the no wolfs allowed on the fence comparison, funny how that makes no sense to the sheeple.
 
Luby's in Texas had the same sign and was shot up a number of years ago. The witnesses stated it was like a "slaughter house".

Yea but didn't that guy drive through the restaurant first? He might have been going to fast to see the sign

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The manager is not likely the owner, and the sign may not be his policy - abd he's probably not a gun person or a WI hunter so he can't see the dangers of that mentality. Arguing with people like that is a waist of good air, and it's better to spend your money at businesses that appreciate your patronage.
 
"I ended the conversation by telling him that I can legally carry in his state, and that had I been armed I would have obeyed his sign and taken the family to another restaurant. That didn't seem to faze him at all. "

Unfortunately, that's the case in the vast majority of business owners' feelings. To them, it's better to lose one gun-carrying customer than dozens of gun-fearing customers.
 
You are certainly within your rights to make your opinions known to the manager. The manager is certainly within his rights to ignore you if he so chooses.

Every restaurant I know of is private property, open to the public only for the conduct of business under the terms and conditions set and controlled by the owners.

The point here is that I must respect the rights of others if I am to have any reasonable expectation that they must respect my rights.

I do not engage in confrontations with those who post their premises as "gun free zones". I simply take my business elsewhere. Whenever possible I make sure that they see me taking my business elsewhere, such as the day that I closed a bank account with a sizable withdrawal (refusing a check and insisting on cash) and carried it across the street to another bank.

I like to send a simple card in the mail announcing my intention to take my trade elsewhere because of their policies. No need to make a scene, engage in a confrontation, or try to force an argument.
 
Here in TX, unless it's an official "30.06", or "51%" sign, a simple 'No Guns' sticker (or sign) is nothing more than 'Management's Request'. If truly carrying concealed, Management would not know if you're carrying. If they DID properly identify a concealed weapon, they could only ask you to leave and charge you for trespassing if you did Not leave when requested.

I no longer bother to confront business owners about the issue.
If the establishment has something I like enough to enter for, I ignore the unofficial sign and carry anyway. If the establishment does NOT have anything I like enough to enter for, I simply turn around and don't give them any of my money.

The only question I have for the OP is... Why WEREN'T you carrying that day? Was it the Wolves' Day Off? ;)
 
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I have never seen one of these signs and I'm not making a joke...I really have never seen one

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No gun policies also makes the business insurance cheaper. Lowering operating cost makes higher profits.

I personally would take money from whoever decides to shop at my store. My policy would be no open carry. If it's concealed, keep it concealed. When people start shooting I have no control, and a threat of a lifelong ban from my store won't even be considered if you're defending your life or family.

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This past week I had an interesting experience while visiting my son in Madison, WI. We went out for dinner, and as we entered the restaurant I saw the "No firearms allowed" sign in the window (I was not carrying), so I asked to speak with the manager.

I asked him why the sign was there, since he surely knew that a criminal, intent on doing harm, was not going to obey the sign, and that all the sign accomplishes is to discourage lawfully carrying patrons from being prepared to defend themselves and others should the need arise. He seemed really confused, stating several times that the sign was intended to keep guns out of the restaurant, thus making it "safer" for everyone. I again asked him if he really believed that the sign would stop a criminal, and he hemmed and hawed and then said, "well, having a no gun policy makes the customers feel safer, knowing that the person sitting at the next table is not carrying a loaded gun". So I again asked him, what is more important, actual safety, i.e., where law abiding citizens are able to stop a criminal, or the false perception of safety of having everyone make believe that a sign stops thugs were coming into the restaurant? He just kept repeating, it makes customers feel safer.

I also asked him if he was aware that most of the multiple-shooting incidents that have occurred in recent years have taken place is supposedly safe, "gun-free" zones, and that this might not be a coincidence. Maybe criminals actively choose such settings, hoping to be able to create mayhem unopposed. He did not respond to this comment at all.

I ended the conversation by telling him that I can legally carry in his state, and that had I been armed I would have obeyed his sign and taken the family to another restaurant. That didn't seem to faze him at all.

What was really discouraging about the whole incident was that my son, who is in law enforcement, seems to agree with this manager that having a "no guns allowed" policy makes him, and likely other customers "feel" safer. Amazing and sad.

Excellent post.
And, yes, discouraging on a couple of levels.
 
With concealed carry, a lot of thought has to go into when and if you ever need to draw the weapon. I like to think I'm protected when I carry however, with the laws in place these days, the law seems many times to be on the side of the criminal.
I tend to agree with those who commented that the gun is concealed and no one would know you were carrying. The management and other patrons would never be aware that you're doing so. If you did, in fact, need to draw your weapon to protect your life, as well as others, you should be thanked for your action. The law however, may see it otherwise.
 

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