Mountain out of a mole hill, really.
S&W only offered the original thumb safety on their M&P 45 because it was developed to meet a requirement for the bid specs of the '05 military JCP program (suspended and then canceled).
We were told early on that they never really intended to offer it as a standard feature in the rest of the model line, and only made it available in the M&P 45 because, well, it was developed and easy to sell ... especially since they already had the parts and the .45 frame mold. They expected the standard M&P 45 without the thumb safety would be in more demand by regular consumers and LE buyers.
I was also told that the sudden commercial consumer demand for a thumb safety option on other M&P's was really unexpected and caught the company by surprise, but they eventually made some changes and made it possible to incorporate in the rest of the line. (The standard sear housing blocks were eventually changed from the ILS or No-ILS blocks over to the thumb safety blocks, and the frames received cuts to accommodate the lever assembly, but the guns could still come without the feature, if desired.)
Yes, the lever assembly isn't located in the same spot. Why would it be? It's not a 1911 and the mechanism is different. That's more a buyer's 1911-centric thinking at work, perhaps.
Hey, even 1911 aficionados can tend to forget that the standard Gov type safety lock (the real name for a thumb safety on a Colt Model O pistol, as I learned in my Colt pistol armorer class

) isn't one that allows the owner/user to comfortably rest a thumb upon while shooting. That came about with the advent of the "combat/extended" safety lever and the Modern Technique. The original levers are small, narrow and all-too-easy-to-miss-swiping (up or down) if you're spoiled by the wide/extended safeties made popular over the years.
Yes, the manipulation of the S&W thumb safety doesn't feel like a Colt/1911-style lever in resistance. That observation has some merit.
While some calls to contacts at the company wouldn't help with changing that, some careful study of the involved parts and operation (I'm a M&P pistols armorer, as well, and have access to spare parts) gave me an idea of how some subtle changes could increase the resistance for moving the levers on & off-safe. (FWIW, I also discovered that just 1 too many file strokes on the wrong spot, or even on the right spot, could render the lever assembly ruined ... meaning the mechanical resistance increased for the lever to where it couldn't be moved from either position.

Good thing about the access to spare parts.)
I judiciously made the modification for a couple of other instructors, including a current rangemaster who approved, on
his responsibility, having the mods done (which is a big deal when it involves weapons authorized for off-duty use). I was able to essentially duplicate the resistance desired by myself and other 1911 owners & users.
S&W could probably have their vendor tighten up the angles on those spots of the levers, or maybe even change the plunger (I left
that alone). Maybe ... but the inherently loose tolerances might not make it either easy or consistent. I had to do each lever by hand, checking the results in each gun, using a couple of needle files and changing the profile of a plastic lever pad (to gain file angle access at one of the spots).
Such hand labor & fitting would add to the cost and production time involved, and they can't make them fast enough as it is.
No, I won't be posting how-to instructions. If you want a 1911 feel with a thumb safety, buy a 1911.
BTW, I like how the design blocks the trigger bar instead of a sear, since it allows for manually running the slide and clearing the chamber with the safety in the ON position.
Totally different manual of arms/operation than a 1911, but sometimes a bit of added safety is NOT a bad thing. (Like making people look inside chambers in order to field-strip a pistol, especially when you're producing/providing duty weapons for many folks who aren't necessarily "gun enthusiasts" and who are easily distracted at an inopportune moment while performing simple tasks.)