How much to tip?

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Talking about my turkey guide. 20%?? And who gets it? Outfitter? Guide? What if they are the same person?
I'm struggling with this. 20% is a lot.
 
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I once chartered a salt water fishing boat. The lady who operated it went above and beyond in my opinion. She really catered to my kids who went with my wife and me. She filleted what we caught so we could take it to the restaurant at the dock for cooking.


I paid her and gave what I thought was a very generous tip. She seemed surprised. I felt she earned it.


I just follow my heart when tipping. If you're a jerk, you ain't getting a tip.


My grandfather once left a penny on a table at a restaurant. I asked him "why even bother". He told me he wanted to make sure the waitress didn't think he forgot the tip. LOL!
 
Tipping percentages pose a psychological problem:

As the bill increases, the actual amount (as opposed to the percentage, which remains the same), looms larger and larger in the mind of the tipper.

Leaving a couple bucks on the table for a $10 meal fazes few people. But to most, a $20 bill (for a $100 tab) looks pretty big, even though it's the same percentage.

Once you've worked in food service, as I did in the lean days of youth, you know that as a rule, you'll get tipped more generously (actually, more fairly in most cases ;)), if groups split bills at a large table.

That's why many fancier restaurants will add a tip to your bill once the party reaches a certain size: not because they don't trust your generosity, but because they don't trust your math and your sense of proportion.

Yes, 20% of a guided trip can be a lot. And a tip should definitely go to the guy who does the work. So if the outfitter is the business owner but not the guide, tip the guide. In that case, I'd actually ask the owner for guidance. And if it's a one-man operation and he worked hard for you to make it happen, and you're happy, he deserves the bonus.
 
I have left a one cent tip on a credit card bill at a restaurant. Forty-five years ago for really bad service in NYC. The waiter was unhappy, but I don't regret it. I was young and with my girl, spending what for me at the time was a splurge. He was condescending, and a lousy waiter. He got what he deserved.

I used to typically tip 15% for expected service, but nowadays I do 20%. I'll go higher or lower depending on the level of service.

I used not to tip for food sold to me at the counter, but nowadays I do, usually 15%. Typically the staff behind the counter is young, trying to be pleasant and do a good job, and the food in such places is typically cheap, a good value for the money. Plus they usually will bring the food to my table, which I appreciate.

Never tipped at a McDonalds or similar though.

Back in my working days I once tipped a limo driver $100 for an early morning hotel to airport trip which cost about the same. He was an older guy, and along the way to the airport I realized that he was the husband of a long retired executive secretary at my company who had been very kind to me when I was young and new to the job. I folded the bill up small, and passed it to him discreetly with a handshake when I went into the airport to catch my flight. I am pleased that I did that — makes for a good memory.

Typically people in the service industries rely on tips to make a decent wage.
 
Thanks for all the replies. I've never done this before and I don't want to be a cheapskate, but I don't see the need to leave any extra money in Florida either. I'm thinking if everything is perfect I'll leave the full 20%. If not closer to 10.
 
Now that so many states have established "high" $12 / $15 per hour minimum wages for restaurant staff, do we still tip the same percentages? The above wages are more than I am paid in my part time auto parts delivery job. My only real tips are "drive faster"....

Larry
 
It was back in the late 80's, I was trout fishing in Mt, one night I met a young guy who was a guide, he asked me what I was doing on Thursday, I said I dont know why, he said he had a guy who wanted to go on a float trip but didnt want to pay the full freight, it was 250 bucks a day, I said I would go, I told him I wanted to fish one of the spring creeks but they were all booked, he said he know one of the owners, he might be able to get us on. He picked me up about 7am and droped me off at 10 pm, I had a great day, my half was 125 bucks, I gave him 200, the next day I felt bad, I should have given him more.

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I tip. I really do.
But, I have my standards also.

To me, 15% is still the normal.

Say, five years ago the average steak at an Outback cost about $11.00.

Today that same 'average steak' is now $15.00.

There is your tip 'raise'.

Once again, tipping is a gratuity. Well, kind of.

It is not such a gratuitous effort if it is totally an expectation that I give you more money than the price on the menu.

That is where it is incumbent on the server to make my dining experience a pleasant one.

Failing to do so will have immediate financial results for the server. And, not to the plus side.


I am not a cheap man.

My wife and children can attest to that.

I treat and am fairly generous.

They all know it.

But, having said all that, I don't TIP ON TAX.

Makes no sense to me.

bdGreen
 
I always tip REAL well. I worked food service and a head boat.
(The Continental Shelf) when it was in Morehead City NC. + a Charter boat ( Nora John) out of Montauk Long Island . . Tips are what made it worth while besides the customers. Especially kids catching their first fish.
Posted the names as perhaps I met some of you.
 
I would tip 10% at the start of the hunt and inform your guide that another 10% will be gifted with a successful hunt. It will provide him good reason to set you up in the better spot...and believe me, he knows where the for sure kill spots are...just sayin

spricks
 
I was taught to always take good care of those who take good care of you.

Not to get to far off the subject. I generally pay cash. When the server realizes I'm not using a credit card, they often ask how much change I want back. I give then the correct answer, "all of it." When this happens I still leave a nice tip, but not quite as much as I had planned on.
 
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