So my girlfriend wants me to teach her to shoot and then get her carry license, wonderful! I picked a good one
However there are some unique challenges: she has cerebral palsy, she is normally confined to a wheelchair and has only one fully working hand (the other works but can only make a claw), and the working one has minimal strength. Do to circumstances (some do to ammo price/availability others not) I have not been a able to get her to the range yet, but I have had the chance to let her handle some of my stuff and more at the store, I’m trying to get an idea what will work well for her.
I discovered some things:
She cannot work the slide of a semi auto, not even the Shield EZ, although she got close with that one (granted I have not had her try the 380 version yet), in the event of a jam or stoppage she would be screwed and I’m willing to bet she will limp wrist it.
She also cannot work the cylinder release of a NEW Smith and Wesson revolver, it’s too stiff, however she COULD relatively easily work the one on my late 1970s model 10.
She says she likes the model 10 and liked the size (4 inch 10-6) too.
I’m considering building her a custom model 10 from parts but before I go that route I wanted to see what modern options might be available.
Price should be as low as possible, certainly under $1,000, preferably way under as I don’t even know if she’ll like it.
I’d like to find her something similar to the 4 inch 10-6.
I want her to have nice adjustable night sites
A laser would be nice but not required
A rail and red dot cutout would also be nice but are not required
Caliber must be decently effective (meet the FBI minimum in gel tests) but have a relatively low recoil, bearing in mind her hand strength.
Capacity must be 6+ (OK this is my own bias but I just never understood 5 shot revolvers) but the more the better.
I like the idea of hammerless or a bobbed hammer but still would like there to be a usable hammer, she was having some issues dry firing in double action mode, she could do it, but single action was easier for her. So something with a low profile/snag resistant hammer but still thumb cockable?
Any suggestions?
I’m stymied by not getting her to the range yet but, without getting in to her business, there are reasons that hasn't been possible yet but I’m hoping to be able to get that rectified in the next few weeks/couple of months.
I’m thinking maybe a 9mm (or .38 special like the Model 10 of course, but I’m still not a super fan of that caliber), or maybe .327 magnum?

I discovered some things:
She cannot work the slide of a semi auto, not even the Shield EZ, although she got close with that one (granted I have not had her try the 380 version yet), in the event of a jam or stoppage she would be screwed and I’m willing to bet she will limp wrist it.
She also cannot work the cylinder release of a NEW Smith and Wesson revolver, it’s too stiff, however she COULD relatively easily work the one on my late 1970s model 10.
She says she likes the model 10 and liked the size (4 inch 10-6) too.
I’m considering building her a custom model 10 from parts but before I go that route I wanted to see what modern options might be available.
Price should be as low as possible, certainly under $1,000, preferably way under as I don’t even know if she’ll like it.
I’d like to find her something similar to the 4 inch 10-6.
I want her to have nice adjustable night sites
A laser would be nice but not required
A rail and red dot cutout would also be nice but are not required
Caliber must be decently effective (meet the FBI minimum in gel tests) but have a relatively low recoil, bearing in mind her hand strength.
Capacity must be 6+ (OK this is my own bias but I just never understood 5 shot revolvers) but the more the better.
I like the idea of hammerless or a bobbed hammer but still would like there to be a usable hammer, she was having some issues dry firing in double action mode, she could do it, but single action was easier for her. So something with a low profile/snag resistant hammer but still thumb cockable?
Any suggestions?
I’m stymied by not getting her to the range yet but, without getting in to her business, there are reasons that hasn't been possible yet but I’m hoping to be able to get that rectified in the next few weeks/couple of months.
I’m thinking maybe a 9mm (or .38 special like the Model 10 of course, but I’m still not a super fan of that caliber), or maybe .327 magnum?
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