Dan Wesson Bruin checks all the boxes you mentioned. I have one and really like it, recoil is (subjective, of course) negligible will all brands of ammo shot thru it.
Look it over real good when it gets to your location. I did the same thing with a 629-4 6 inch barrel. I thought it looked rougher than the pictures on cabelas site showed so i talked to one of the guys in the gun library and he took $140 off the asking price. It polished up nice and is a...