Typical advice is to go with a bigger, bulkier, softer grip -- and probably, for most folks, that's good advice.
For myself, I have found the best recoil solution for an N-frame is just the opposite. Nothing I have found works better for me than Magna grips supplemented with a T-grip. I believe the secret is that this combo is small enough to allow my rather small hands a full grip, allowing me to really lock down and control all the commotion.
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