The 50 AE Desert Eagle I shot, with factory Hornady 300gr XTP loads, was a puddy cat compared to a 500 S&W.
A 44 Mag is nothing like shooting a 500 either.
I'm a short barrel guy. I've got the 3-1/2" ES & my son has a 4". (The 4" is only 3" of rifled barrel & 1" of comp.)
Which ever you choose hopefully you handload because that's the only real way to enjoy the 500 to it fullest, & the cheapest
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