Got your e-mail, Flapjack.
Okay, what seems to be happening is that your crimping procedure is probably putting a very, very slight bulge in the case mouth just below the crimp. So, the cartridge is head spacing on the slight bulge. Now, when the firing pin strikes the primer (with what appears to be sufficient force), the energy is being wasted driving the cartridge deeper into the chamber rather than denting the primer.
Here's what I would do. First, I would bell the mouth of the case as little as possible and still be able to seat the bullet without shaving lead. Next, I would seat the bullet a little deeper than the crimping groove in the SWC. Finally, I would apply just enough crimping force to bring the mouth back to shape. In other words, you should be able to feel the mouth of the cartridge with you thumb nail. Then, with the barrel removed from the pistol, I would drop the cartridge in. It should drop freely with no drag and give a nice click as the mouth hits the end of the chamber. At that point, the back of the cartridge should be a hair below flush, certainly no higher than flush.
HTH