I think most of the forcing cone issues were traced to hot 125 grain (and lighter) jacketed bullets, so you should be alright as far as that goes.
From what I've seen in my Lyman manual, 14.5 is near the max load so wear and tear could be an issue if you run through a lot of them in a K frame. It's not going to come unglued on you or anything, but in time it will loosen up. When I feel the need to shoot a lot of .357 Magnums on the upper end, I get out the 686.
I've run up to 14.0/2400 with that bullet in my 6" M19 but wasn't all that impressed with the accuracy. I really got that gun primarily to shoot .38 Special wadcutters in, but did want to have a decent .357 load on tap for occasional use. I settled on 12.5 grains, which gave me 1230 fps and 8 shots into 2.2" off a rest at 25 yards...naturally I had two flyers that opened it up some, but that's how it goes. That's fast enough for me and the accuracy is pretty good, so that's what I use in it. Good luck.