Craig, I've got a 986 (another "L" frame) and went through the same thing you're seeing after changing the rebound spring to a lighter one from Wolfe. The longer firing pin will help, but may not eliminate the light strike issue. I've never had a pierced primer, afaIk.
My observation is that it only happens when shooting double action and when I'm a bit less than....shall I say committed...on the trigger. I'll usually get soft strikes if I inadvertently hesitate mid pull or if I'm trying to cheat the break. A smooth, positive full pull results in successful ignition. It's allegorical to limp-wristing an automatic...limp fingering?
There may be an issue with cartridges that have "hard" primers, but I haven't isolated that out.
I did have an issue on my 986 that you won't have. Somewhere along the lines I picked up some out of spec moon clips that caused just enough headspace error that some cartridges would show a soft strike. That one took me awhile to sort out.