A story of love that breaks my heart

Jinglebob

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I write tonight with deep sadness, not for sympathy but to acknowledge that sometimes there is a love so powerful that it transcends all boundaries. What transpired was a love story between two best friends but it has left me so broken hearted that I don't know when I will recover.

On the 11th of this month I lost my 12 year-old collie, King Edward. Edward had a female companion, a 10 year-old collie named Mary Ann. She was my wife's best buddy like Edward was mine.

The two collies were inseparable. They played and worked together as a team and slept side by side during the night. Mary Ann sensed that Edward was dying and lovingly mothered over him these past months.

When I returned form the vet a little over a week ago without Edward, Mary Ann became concerned and looked for him everywhere. Over the next few days she became despondent and withdrawn. I could see the sadness and loneliness in her eyes. She gradually stopped eating and spent her days on the pallet that the two had shared. Despite all our efforts to cheer her, at 5 p.m. yesterday evening, Mary Ann uttered a mournful sigh and passed away.

Mary Ann visited her vet only two weeks ago. She had been loosing weight for several months and was becoming less active. The tests that came back indicated a healthy dog, except for the persistent arthritis in her back. I scheduled a scan on the advice of my vet. He suspected that she might have an internal condition, like tumors or cancer, which the blood work did not reveal.

I think that Mary Ann was much sicker than we realized but refused to surrender while her best friend Edward was still fighting a battle for his own life. She was a joy and comfort to him in his illness. After he passed, she allowed herself to give up to be with him.

I buried Mary Ann next to Edward. I like to think that the two of them are playing together and enjoying each other's company once again. I hope they don't get into too much mischief before I get there.

I loved my little girl Mary Ann as much as I loved Edward. Tonight our house, on the eve of Thanksgiving, seems silent and empty.

RIP Mary Ann.


Whenever I baled hay, Edward would go through the pasture and anoint the bales while Mary Ann stood guard.




Mary Ann earlier this week.

 
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I can't begin to tell you how sorry I am to hear this.

The only thing is they are together at the Rainbow Bridge and awaiting your arrival someday in the future.

I expect to be crushed in a stampede of my critters waiting for me at the bridge. I'm hurryin' as fast as I can.:)
 
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I am sorry for the loss of your companions, I dread the day when my dogs time will come. Know that you gave them a good home while they were here and that they gave you and your family unconditional love.
 
jinglebob, I am an old country boy, dogs a part of my life forever, they have been there;.. they have gone away;...they were all the types could be imagined, Collies too, but I swear your feelings for "King Eward" and "Maryann"; as you wrote of it, comes through so strongly it leaves me so very saddened for you and your wife.

Good dogs, same as it is with small children; there seems only one possible reason they have to leave us; and of course, it is because Heaven just wouldn't BE, without small children and fine dogs.
 
There is pain at the end of all loves.

Only those who have unconditionally loved a pet can understand.

My heart goes out to you.

Many years ago my wife bought me a little Registered Lab pup for Fathers Day. He became quite the partner. We hunted together, he'd chase me on the 4 wheeler in the snow. He was my dog but he fell in love with my wife, when we were at home he was at her side. He'd take a bullet for her. once when my wife passed out and hit her head I called an ambulance, 2 lady EMT's arrived, he would not let them close to her. Had to put him up.

My wife later bought herself a yellow registered lab out of world champion hunting stock. That little girl fell in love with me. She is sitting at my feet now.

We had to have the old fella put down 1.5 years ago. They were buddies. She and he would sleep by me, ever ready to go when I got up.

For the longest time the female lab was looking for her buddy and companion. One could tell she missed him.

Recently I've noticed she now has the white whiskers and is not as playful as she once was, it is 4 or more down the road, how can one steel them self for this event?

We were missing having 2 Labs. We just bought a Registered Chocolate Female lab pup and brought her home Halloween weekend. It took 1.5 years to even think of another dog. Time to heal is never slow in love.

I wish the best you and your family.
 
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...sorry to have to post this for you again so soon...we lost our two 14 year old Basset Hounds within about a year...that was hard enough...we now have two more...one three and one four years old...they are bringing us the incredible joy only dogs can...
 
This is very sad news to hear with two losses so soon together. At this house Wendy is the biggest dog person I have ever known and would agree with you about Mary Ann refusing to leave while her buddy was around and needed her. One we like here

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It is always sad when they leave us but they had a home, a family where they were both loved and no doubt knew it.
 
As I said before that I would remember the Jinglebob story whenever I saw the name. As I read your post I now have to expand that group. The act of putting pen to paper (finger to keys these days) helps us cement our dear memories of these special friends. I know they will have "successors" to fill the empty spaces that have been left. A beautiful memory...thank you
 
...a great dog movie...and of course...a real tear jerker at the end...

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I've heard people say that animals do not have emotions like humans. That is pure garbage. I have seen animals experience joy, fear, love, worry, jealousy, and anger. But watching them mourn is the hardest thing. I am sorry for all the sorrows in your story.
 
Prayers sent for your family. Stories like these are hard to read, mostly 'cause we've all pretty much been there, but it never gets easier. My condolences on your loss; best wishes for your recovery, and sincere thanks for sharing the story.
 
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