Well I know this is far too late seeing how the original thread was created in 2012...
I have a S&W 357PD, and I wouldn't get rid of it for any reason. The gun is awesome, super light weight, and is very accurate once you dial it in. Having an adjustable rear sight for both elevation and windage is key because everyone out there aims a pistol different than others.
I have shot both the 41 mag and 44 mag, to me there isn't a ton of difference in recoil, and for a lot of folks having such a light revolver with a magnum cartridge isn't a pleasure to shoot.
I elected on the 41 mag simply because I got a screaming deal on it, Sportman's Warehouse was going out of business so I was able to pick up a brand new one for $700.00. Even for a slightly used one $700.00 is a smoking deal, I wouldn't pass it up for anything, especially if revolvers are your flavor of choice.
Simply put, it isn't a gun I would not fire every day on a constant basis, but for being in the outdoors where there are critters large in size that may want to make you part of their menu...this is the gun to have at your side. You won't notice the weight, you won't notice a gun in your pack or on your side that can stop a freight train...you will be safe in every aspect of the outdoors with a revolver like this (if you know how to use it).
Don't pass it up, buy it and be done. You won't go wrong. I don't think the recoil is any more than shooting my Ruger 44 mag with a 5.5 in barrel which is stainless steel.
If it is a gun that you are simply using for defense, or carrying with you in the backcountry, this is the gun to have.
Buy a Ringler Wyoming combo holster and you are set. Awesome holsters made in Wyoming by a small outfit...can't say enough about the workmanship and products they make. Expensive, but worth every penny.
JT...out.