After shooting 40 years, I shot an airweight J frame for the first time ever. I bought the gun for my wife who found my SS model 60 unpleasant. That extra 1/4 lb makes a world of difference recoil wise. I shot 100 rds of WW Olin AF surplus Ball from '91, some Silvertip 110 gr non +P and the Federal 110 or 115 Hydrashok also non+P. Loud and snappy, difficult to keep a 6" group @ 15 ft. I guess I'm a wimp but I can shoot a .44mag better. My wife ain't a "gun gal", doing it at my insistence, so this gift might get a negative response. I'm going to get some wadcutters at the next show. Joe
Ok, I'm confused. As I understand what I read in your post, your wife had a problem with the recoil of an all steel Model 60, so you got her the lighter 642? Huh? Assuming the same .38 ammo in both guns and similar grips on both guns, the 642 will recoil more (actual and felt recoil)than the 60. Am I misreading your post?
If I've not misread your post, I strongly recommend that you never ask/allow your wife to shoot the 642. Trust me, I speak from experience.
By the way, I carry one or two 642-2 as backups in my front pockets. I've put Crimson Trace LG-305 lasergrips on both of them. The LG-305 does three good things: the grip is longer and better cushioned (the backstrap is covered) than the OEM boot grip on the 642, thus reducing discomfort and enhancing control of the piece. Additionally, under any kind of limited visibility, that laser is a whale of a lot easier for my 56 YO eyes to see than the astoundingly miserable factory sights on the 642, allowing faster more accurate sighting. Having said that, one must practice with the laser to gain proficiency.
Speaking of practice, what I've found is that as I shoot the 642s more and more, I get much more proficient with them and notice the recoil less. I require frequent training to shoot them well.
Also shooting one of my 642s revealed that it had a light strike issue with certain ammo types. I took it out to Frank Smith at LSG Manufacturing 45 minutes away from me in Comanche, Texas. He does warranty work on S&Ws and other brands. Frank had a new longer firing pin installed and had me on my way in twenty minutes at zero cost to me. If I hadn't shot it much, I'd not know about this issue.
Note to Smith & Wesson: Put dovetail-mounted (front and back) night sights on all your self-defense fixed sight revolvers. Or at least give us an option of having these types of sights from the factory. People actually need serious sights on serious self-defense guns.