Are you a prisoner...

After the first few times of dealing with the aftermath of relatives passing on, who grew up in the depression, you begin viewing it differently. In one instance (and I'm not kidding about this one bit!) the persons 24'X24' garage had had it's rafters stuffed full of the pickets from the picket fence of the 66'X160' lot the garage stood on. The year? 2000'. When the fence came down? 1967'. And no, they did NOT have a fireplace. I won't try to describe the cans of food bulging from being 1 1/2 decades past their expiration. A great life lesson. "Stuff" is usually only important to the one not throwing 90% of it away.
 
There was a time when I could put everything I owned in 2 paper shopping bags. I wouldn't want to be that way today, but I was sure happy then. As far as being owned by my own stuff, I suppose I am, in a way, but it's amazing what you can live without, if you have to.
 
When my dad died, I cleaned out the house that had been in the family for 35 years. He was a product of the depression and didn't like to throw things away. He worked for the gas company and I probably threw away 1500 pieces of pipe, none over 3 inches long. I have no idea as to how many fittings, etc.

My wife and I have been married for almost 40 years and we have lots of stuff. We are at the point of trying to get rid of stuff and she is always asking people not to give us things as we have too many. I could gladly get rid of a lot of her stuff and she keeps mentioning my collection of Shooting Times, G&A, AR and AH that go back to he early 70's.

I remember when I had one gun and 25 rounds of ammo. I really don't want to go back to that, but will have to someday.
 
I can still fit everything I have in my 2000 Camry. It doesn't accelerate quite as fast and the back end droops, but it will fit. However, I grew up lower middle class (I like to say Upper Lower class, at least that way I'm on top of a category) and find it amazing that I now have enough stuff to fill a car. I'm sure that will all change one day.
 
I have quite a bit of "stuff" built up from over the years. If moving and took it all, it's probably a 1/2 semi load or more for a moving company. But while reading this thread, I thought about this a little. I have a Tacoma and could easily fit everything I absolutely wanted to keep in the back of it. These would be "non-replaceable" items like family papers and photos, and well, that's about it. Most of the rest could be purchased again...

I do not feel I'm a prisoner of my possessions, but love them. After all, doesn't everyone need a 61" big screen TV in their man cave?:D
 
I don't really understand the question. I'm not sure I could fit all my junk on an aircraft carrier, yet we could leave here with everything we need in our pockets. I enjoy having "stuff", but I don't assign a lot of importance to it. My wife and children are what really matters.
 
Definitely...and it's been bugging me lately. The furniture and appliances I could leave with no problem (except maybe the Lazy Boy :)), but I have accumulated a LOT of great books that would be hard to part with, and hard to replace. And what to do with all the guns and ammo? I've been selling some off, but they tend to get replaced by others. :rolleyes:
 
I freely and cheerfully confess to being a Pack Rat-I can still recall having a discussion with a high school classmare and fellow Boy Scout over 40 years, he summed up the Pack Rat Mentality very succinctly-"Oops, might need that someday!" Look up the Collyer Brothers. I have found the secret is to have enough to live comfortably with being either a slave or overwhelmed by it.
One acquaintance decided to clear out his storage unit and sell everything, he cleared over $800. Afew years ago I made a neighborhood boy happy when I gave him TWO complete sets of the McDonald's Flintstone mugs.
My guns, my coins are things I would miss the most in the event of loss. Then my books, some other items.
Regarding some of the comments about only have enough that will fit in a couple of suitcases or maybe a back pack due to a unsteady and volatile relationship with an SO, I will repeat my old joke about the redneck who refinanced his house to buy a truck. When his wife found out about it and blew up, he took off in his paid up truck and stuck her with the two mortgages.
 
I air'd tires today. We have a small farm, but don't farm for a living.

I had 51 vehicle, trailer, tractor, etc. tires...... Didn't do the kids bikes.

Yep, sometimes I really wonder.
 
When I moved to TN, I left a big storage unit of stuff behind. Didn't have a truck, or the money to rent one. I ended up telling my son to go through it all, take what he wanted, and sell or trash the rest. But I am a collector. Antiques mostly. Furniture, toys, china, etc. And now my passion is S&Ws. Are my possessions holding me prisoner? Nope. I've learned possessions are just that. Material objects. They may give you enjoyment, but they can't give you peace and happiness. That comes from somewhere else!

Misty's got it. Don't Love anything that can't Love you back.
Then again.....Stuff can be pretty cool (Guns, Tools, Books.....)
 
I have a lot of stuff also. I try to keep it pruned to a reasonable level though. My rule is that when an object stops giving me pleasure it can be sold or disposed of if the opportunity arises. I got rid of a LOT of stuff several years ago when I divorced. I haven't missed it either.
 
You want to know what cures one of having a lot of stuff?????
Try a hurricane blowing through and taking it away. You fast realize that the only real important things are what you can cram into a Trailblazer, a suburban and into the boat you are towing. The idea of stuff has become less and less important to me after living through Betsy, Camile, Andrew, Lillie & Gustav. ( I didn't mention Katrina cause although my and my wife's familys lost just about everything-my household came through unscathed).

One good thing about Katrina was that when my MIL passes, she won't have much for the kids to fight over and it's all new.
 
I'm thinking you guys are rank amateurs at this stuff. My father lived through the great depression and forever corrupted my little mind. If its free, its mine. If its cool, I want it.

We collect stuff. My wife and I get along well because her parents were the same way. Our stuff gives us pleasure. We know we've got what we need. She collects trash, I collect good stuff. Doesn't matter. We have way too many hobbies. I even indulge her with occasional presents. I've bought her a series of embroidery machines. Computer controlled sewing machines, really. She needs supplies. So one day at the flea market, we found a guy who'd bought out the Cannon textile mills old handtowels. I bought her 50 of them for $50. She loved them. So the following weekend I filled my pockets with green and went back for serious shopping. Turns out the guy had almost nothing in them, but wanted $1 each. I asked him for his next price break. He asked how many we were talking about. I ended up buying 1000 of them for $400. :)

About 5 or 6 years ago a local embroidery factory was going out of business. They had an auction. I took a few hours off work to visit. My wife, intelligently, decided I couldn't be trusted alone. She showed up unexpectedly (by me.) Anyway, I bought one of about 10 tables full of thread. The one I bid on had boxes under it. They were filled, too. We own enough thread to make a string easily to the west coast, probably back to KY. Colors of the rainbow, too! :)

The company I work for had a telemarketing division. We sold crap to gift shops. Gift shops wrap presents. We had pallets full of stuff that just sat in the one warehouse, gathering dust. Maybe 3 years ago someone decided it was going into dumpsters on the following Monday. I was polite and asked. We worked the Saturday morning. Her station wagon, full to the roof. My oldests minivan, filled twice. I own more ribbon, the kind you tie packages with, than most suppliers. Other crap too!

And thats just the sissy stuff.

I never throw away tools. Or hardware. I've got bolts. I've got screws. Nails? You betcha. Cloth chokers found along the road. Same for the $10 gas cans people buy when they run out of fuel, then leave along the road.

Wanna talk about gun stuff? In 1965, I bought my Browning T bolt. I've still got the instructions, the extra mags (now worth about $100 each), the floor plate and lift to convert it to single shot. Everything else I've accumulated, too.

But I don't have the disease bad. When I clean a gun, I throw away the dirty patches. And I never keep the fired 22 rimfire cases. But I do accumulate old plumbing stuff, like old copper pipe. :) :) Yes, I took it back to a metals recycler when copper got to $4. But don't feel too sorry for me, its growing again. Or do feel sorry for me, send me your old wire and copper pipe! :)

Beside the garage I've got a ramp from a delivery truck. Its aluminum. Weighs several hundred pounds. No real use for it, but its worth $$. When the local AMC/Jeep dealership closed down I was given a few cases of synthetic gear oil. Still have it, too.

If I go to a yard sale, I buy stuff I think is a bargain. Thursday I had to go to another of the company's buildings. I passed a yard sale on the way, so I stopped on the way back. I paid $2 for a table cloth for my wife. Brand new, and it fits our dining room table (good guess on my part.) The only problem is its bright red. We'll use it. If not It'll become a table cloth at a gun show.

Want to talk about odds and ends of ammo? If you've got me beat, you've got quite a pile.
 
I'm a pack rat, my dad was too. I'm an only child and only grandchild on my dad's side. My granparents had lots of nice stuff from all their travels and the many places they lived. It's all mine now, and when my dear 96 year old mom leaves this old world, all her stuff will be mine. Am I a prisoner of my possessions? Of course not, I'm the warden of my possessions. They can leave when I say so, or when their "freedom" is bought. I just hate cleaning all that stuff. Especially yard work.
 

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