When I was a kid, and I'm in my early 50's now, I met a guy that was in the OSS during WW-2. The OSS was the ancestor of the CIA, and had a number of very interesting agents both male and female. What always impressed me was that he never got involved in either the "how great I was" stories, or the blood and gore stories either. Instead, he just talked about things like how an agent was so well trained that he or she was able to, in a last ditch situation, either improvise weapons, or disarm and opponent and use their weapons to escape. He emphasized that a smart person would minimize his or her risks, and use everything to their advantage. I wish I could have gotten more details off of him, but I don't think he would have given them. Cool guy and a real gentleman.
Regards,
Dave