When we go camping in a State Park or other organized campground, It isn't the people with the quarter million dollar RV, that I want to check out! I want to see the gear of the guy with 4 or 5 kids, a big old tent and a Dutch Oven! He is putting a huge memory in those kids that will sustain them for the rest of their lives!
My wife and I started the first summer we were married. Every other weekend we were camped under a big tree on one of our farms! We had my 220 lantern and my 425 stove, but the fire grate and long forks and pie irons got the main cooking duty. I picked up a #10 Dutch Oven, and deep dish pizza became a camping treat!
AS our kids came along, they went camping ASAP! the longest wait was our daughter, She didn't camp until she was 5 months old! (Our youngest was right at 1 month!)
Now, the kids have kids and a family get together in warm weather involves Campers, Tents, & Cabins. Lawn chairs and bicycles everywhere! The love in the air is at least twice as thick as the wood smoke!
My equipment advise is pretty simple: try and have everything on the same type of fuel. AND you can't own too many long Hot Dog forks!
Medium quality coolers in quantity are better the one high quality cooler!
When camping, all kids and maybe even you will get dirty, Enjoy it! When raining, play in it! When muddy, wallow like a pig. Only clean-up/get shower for the evening, sleep clean and do it again tomorrow!
At home you have 3 meals a day, Camping there is one meal, all day long! A tent or camper is no place to count calories!
Ice cream is hard to take camping, so if there is a camp store with Ice Cream, it is a LAW that Grampa is buying! Sometimes 2 times a day! If no camp store, A Dairy Queen is required both coming and going!
I say and do all this so when my grandkids are grown with families of their own, they invite me to camp with them. (maybe just a day trip)
Ivan