kbm6893:
A good part of the issue is that these guns are made for a price, and the ones that go into LE service should have an associated armorer to handle minor break-in issues. For the rest of us, just shoot the heck out of it, and all the problems will either jump out at you (and S&W's CS folks will help out), or you'll burn 'em off (stock triggers will improve with use).
The dead trigger problem seems to be a long-term potential, rather than something to absolutely expect, unless you do the DCAEK (or, I would expect, any of the Apex sear mods). You don't need any of these for a Service gun, or SD work - it's just better with them, but the dead trigger is a caveat unless you have the newer sear block, in which case, you shouldn't have the problem.
I remember buying new cars, and then taking the car back a week or two later with a long list of things to fix. We accepted that with cars that cost a lot more than an M&P. I would still expect some of that, although the last new car (in 1989) went through the warranty period with only one problem, and that turned up quite late - one of the little bitty bypass hoses around the heater valves grew a hole. Made it back to the dealer without a tow....
I don't think the manufacturers can test these guns to the point of "perfect" and still sell them for anything we'd likely pay for a Tuppergun.... They also have to design something they can crank out without going crazy of the cost of tooling - cutters and molds wear. Kinda "do the best you can", which seems to be pretty good.
Just IMHO, of course.... During WWI and WWII, a fresh out of the box Colt GM would likely survive about anything we could throw at it. But when people start mucking with it for accuracy, better triggers, etc., some of that "drive a jeep over it" went away....
(No, I'm not that old. But close

....)
In short, if you don't upgrade the sear, odds are that the gun will work reliably. If the tolerances were a little wrong, or some crud gets into the sear block, who knows, eventually. But S&W has changed that, and you can get that upgrade, should you feel you need it, easily. If you wait about another year, Brownells and Midway should have the new blocks (about $30) and you can swap it yourself. (Anybody's guess what you'd get from them now.) It's the guys who've done the Apex upgrade (for whatever reason) that should run to the mailbox and get the sear block upgrade now....
Regards,